I just can't . . . Can I?
My GF (we been dating for 10 months, since about last christmass) has started asking me to do her while she's on her period and she's getting more pushy for me to start doing that. She says her last boyfriend did it a lot and so did a guy she went out with while she was living with that previous BF. She says that sometimes her period can make her super h****, and when it happens she needs it bad, and right away, and a d**** just don't get the job done: she needs a man to hit it good and hard. I understand she's telling me that she's not afraid to cheat in order to get what she wants and needs. Especially since she was cheating on BOTH her boyfriend AND that other guy the night we met and began our relationship. I'm afraid I'll lose her to another guy if I don't start giving her what she wants when she wants it. I do not want her to move out, and the "normal" s** we have is not something I want to give up. Like, ever. I had tried menstrual intercourse a few times with a GF while I was in grad school but it was gross and messy (and ruined my bed) and I quit surrendering to her whims. I just don't think I can do that again, but I don't want to lose this woman and I can't convince her that it's wrong. And disgusting. her father (no longer alive) was Jewish (although she and her mom were never observant), so I've even tried selling her on the prohibitions under Mosaic law, but no deal. I realize the problem is with me and my attitudes, NOT with her, so maybe somebody here can help me "get over myself" or change my sensibilities about this act. If she didn't matter to me, I would just say "no" and let her go.