Messy love bites

I went out on a first date with a guy from a dating app, and we ended up making out pretty intensely by the end of the night. Somewhere in the midst of it, he managed to leave a few massive, messy hickies across my throat, in spots that’re pretty hard to hide. I’m pretty sure it was just the heat of the moment, but part of me has to wonder if he did it so that I’d not easily be able to go out with anyone else but him until they fade—it would be pretty blatant that I’d been with someone else just recently, after all… And a LOT of me is surprisingly SUPER into the idea that he was trying to mark his territory, and I can't help but admire the sight of what he did to me in the mirror every time I go past one, and wondering if he'll do it again the next time we're together.

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  • I'm 45 year old male met this girl at the bar she was 34 . Well upkeep I can tell high mantanice . Well we go get a room before we are even naked she says I don't have to where a condom if I want to c** in her I can cause she had her tubes tied. Well we both were pretty tipsy in the heat of the moment I left her with big hickies around her neck and it's. In the morning she said she can't make it to work like that cause she had a state government job. I was not trying to claim her it was just the moment

  • That's so hot. IDC what you look like, I want to mark you with my hickies and make you worship my c*** as a s** slave. My god I want to brand you like cattle and make you obey me.

  • He's trying to keep you in his stable by marking you. It's like branding a cow. He wants to control you by limiting your options and making you look "used". YES. He did it on purpose. YES. He will do it again. And again. And again. You're a grownup and can decide whether or not you like it and want it to continue on ANY level. But just be aware: he's not doing it for YOUR benefit, he's doing it for HIS benefit. He hopes you take it as a sign that his desire for you is uncontrollable, but this is simple manipulation and dominion. Don't be fooled. This is him, testing the limits. Let him know where they are.

  • Yes. Hickies take time. Definitely wasn’t a quick of the moment thing.

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