50 something closeted bi married crossdresser

I first worn a pair of girls panties when I was 11. I started wearing my moms panties, bras, stockings and girdles all the time and sleep in her panties every night. She caught me a few times but just said "just don't late dad see you". She even started buying my own girl things. I had my first male on male s** when I was 13 and really never stopped until we were out of high school. I have been married over 30 year and continue to dress without my wife knowing. I underdress for work each day and will dress fully when she is gone or I meet a male lover. We have not had s** in over 2 years and I don't really care to with her. I lover her but I just like bottoming for a man. I want to tell about my crossdressing and the fact I love to give oral and receive a***. What would be the best way to tell her?

Jan 8

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  • Your mom should have seen if you could have been a Girl Scout. Google "my son was a Girl Scout" and read the story. Back then they taught a lot of useful skills like cooking and sewing.

  • She did know I worn panties, and after the 2nd time catching me she bought me my own panties, garter, bras to wear when my dad was gone.

  • I like dressing in panties bras slips garters. I just like the way it makes me feel like a woman..momspantysniffer

  • I love being dressed too. I wish I could dress 24/7 and maybe even take hormones

  • I love wearing panties to work and bras when I wear a thick dark dress shirt. Most days just panties and stockings, a little light make-up. I am shaved legs and clitty and man puss, underarms. my wife has no clue. when I can I love to fully dress. Would so much love to have a good lover like you

  • Let's play. And chat with each other momspantysniffer

  • I would love to chat where do you want to chat?
    I can give you and e-mail or phone number or what do you like?

  • You don't need to leave your wife just start out tell her a little bit at a time let her know you like wearing her panties that's your starting point let her know you have fantasies and panties garters is one of them...momspantysniffer

  • Thank you for the support

  • Your welcome

  • Get a divorce-no reason is needed. 30 years in the closet is too much

  • The thing is I am close to retirement and most likely my job will end before I get to retirement age and will have to split my retirement and home 50/50 with her.

  • Tough call. If you split you'll probably have to keep working just to get by. The good news is that if you resume working after you split she can't go back and demand more money.


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