50 something closeted bi married crossdresser
I first worn a pair of girls panties when I was 11. I started wearing my moms panties, bras, stockings and girdles all the time and sleep in her panties every night. She caught me a few times but just said "just don't late dad see you". She even started buying my own girl things. I had my first male on male s** when I was 13 and really never stopped until we were out of high school. I have been married over 30 year and continue to dress without my wife knowing. I underdress for work each day and will dress fully when she is gone or I meet a male lover. We have not had s** in over 2 years and I don't really care to with her. I lover her but I just like bottoming for a man. I want to tell about my crossdressing and the fact I love to give oral and receive a***. What would be the best way to tell her?