Breakup Texts with my GF

Last week I wrote a post about my girlfriend that everyone tells me to leave. Here is our latest texts from a few minuites ago.

Me- Hello _____

Her- hi luv🤣

Me- I need to let you know that I'm moving back to Switzerland
[Dad is from there, lived there from ages 13-16]

Her- I loved it when we did a simester abroad there! Can't wait to go. But Americans are banned so it'll be a while🙁

Me- [Sends picture of my Swiss passport that just came in the mail yesterday] I'm not

Her- but what about me??!??

Me- I leave next week. Staying with my Aunt until classes start. English classes for computer classes w/ exchange students. Swiss-German for the rest.

Her- are you leaving me!!!!!!!!

Me- ja [Yes in German]

Her- wym? I guess you're joking

Me- 'ja' means yes in German. _______, we had some great times together, but this is goodbye. Please don't come to my house to win be back.

Then I turned off my phone and started writing this. That was hard to do.

Feb 28

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