I wish I had significant other

That's it. I've been feeling very lonely and the older I get, the harder I realize it'll be for me to even get in a relationship (I'm 20, I know, I'm still young, but it really sucks when most people I know have already been in relationships)... Covid isn't helping either lol
I don't want to use dating apps either because I'm not looking for a hookup (plus, would much rather meet someone offline, whether that'd be through mutual friends or shared hobbies or whatever)
It's not like I've never had people interested in me, but I was never attracted to them and they weren't generally great people so no loss there for me...

Anyways. Yeah. I'm extremely lonely and am always fantasizing about a love life I worry I'll never have :/
I guess I should work on self-love so I don't have to rely on another person to give me what I want so much. Be my own dream person or whatever.

Mar 11

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  • I’m 28 and never held hands with a man, you’ve still got time. I don’t have any hope for myself though.

  • Get out and meet people if you can. Just be yourself. Best of luck to you.

  • Learn to love the one person you can trust :- YOURSELF.
    People lie, cheat and are out for themselves.
    Relationships rarely last.
    I 58 years old and speak from.experience.
    People rarely say what they actually mean.
    Both my brothers and all my friends have been lied to , ripped off and divorced by women they thought they had a mutual understanding with.
    I came close once to marrying but thankfully I saw the light just in time.
    I'm not going down that route.
    I do what I want when I want and and am financially better off single.
    I love my sports car , she'll never l lie to me .
    When I tire of driving I go home to MY flat and MY flat.
    You're better off alone with a very small number of very carefully chosen friends

  • Self love is what you need to help you know your name.

  • Agreed . My right hand us all I need.

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