I'm in a plural relationship
I'm 26, I have an older boyfriend by who I have a baby. He's possessive and sees and treats me as his woman. After my baby was born I struggled with my identity and my role. I have a friend, Clara, that has a three year old. She is struggling financially, her son's father is out of picture, always has been. My man told me to have her move in with us, I need a woman with me, she needs a home for her and her son and he wants two women, don't ask me why. He put us in the master to sleep together and get used to it, he visits and takes his women before returning to sleep in the guest room, for now until we are fully accustomed to living together, then he moves back in the matter with us.
He found a woman in Oregon who will perform a plural union for us, wife to wife, wife to husband, husband to wives. He is adopting her son. As part of the union we will change our names and accept him as our head of the house. According to this woman plural relationships are best with natural sisters and natural lesbians. We aren't sisters so I guess she's telling us we are natural lesbians. Go figure, we're close but not close like that.