Cultural advice needed
My experience with black teenage boys is limited. I need some help with this one. I am a white 39 year old mother of a teenage son. Until recently we lived in rural West Virginia. All my sons friends were white. I am used to his teenage friends checking me out or occasionally making the veiled sexual comment.
But, we recently moved to a suburb outside of DC. A couple of the boys hanging out around the house now are black. Not a problem we don't care and give them the same scrutiny we always have. You know, make sure the parents are OK, good homes, supervision, the normal a parent worries about.
Anyway the problem is, there are two of my sons friends that are black and around the house a lot. And they are much more sexually aggressive with me than anything I have dealt with in a teenage boy. When they can corner me alone they will grope my ass and t***. One of the boys actually told me he wanted to "wreck my little white p****".
I don't want to embarrass my son. What can I do???