Wife unknowingly became sugar baby
After having kids our marriage and relationship was stressful. Also my work kept changing and I wasn’t able to keep our family in the type of living situation she wanted. We barely got a home mortgage then realized our budget wouldn’t work and couldn’t keep getting money from family to help us. She finally got a few small jobs and we were getting by fairly well and she was happy. Bills paid and she had her own money in the bank. She started paying for vacations and nice Christmas. One job was a crazy old lady I heard to much about and had her doing all manner of things. I know that one is legit. The second went from a dog walker position to dog plus elder care for half a day. She was also getting food and gifts and keeping more quiet about that one. Turns out she was on a website sugar babies dot com. She had sexual encounters with a dozen men 3 years ago and ended up finding this old man we made a weekly client. The dog walking was the cover and she let this old man buy her ** toys he used on her as he plays with her body and she strokes his old **. It’s so disgusting to think about that it’s been happening for 3 years. I’m pretty sure it’s the only guy she sees now but I can’t get over what she did or what is happening. Meanwhile our personal and physical relationship fell off 2 years ago. I’m mainly just here for my kids. I got to read through her emails a couple months ago and found all this information. Even if I got a way better job so she didn’t have to do this and we could work on our relationship. I’m not sure if I want to. I confronted her. She’s only doing it for the money. Says she is done with ** the rest of her life after this. And if I was a better provider this wouldn’t have happened. WTF
We did sometimes play around with other couples and she ** a few of my friends. Kind of a semi-open marriage. But nothing behind each other's back. She was also quite promiscuous when she was younger in Japan. When things got bad financially for us, she chose to ** herself out instead of helping the household in any other way. I didn't know about what she was doing. When everything came out, she blamed me for what she did.
That sounds pretty hot especially for your friends. Wish I was your friend! Was she Japanese? That would be pretty hot for white guys at least. :)
You should post your story as its own confession so its more widely read. May get some useful insights from other's in the same situation.