Crossroads

Maybe go talk with her lover's partner, you might get lucky

Married three times, and having had a few roommate relationships, I have come to think that ALL women have it in them to cheat if they think they will not get caught, but then so do most men.
I had around half a dozen relationships in college, and every one of them I caught, which ended things that fast.
I dumped the first wife when I caught her, the 2nd one I found out later after an accident she did not survive, the 3rd one I just gave up on and joined in.
Now over 40 years later, still married, I would wager her lovers number in the thousands, and since we swing with couples, I am close to that.
My wife, even at her age, is good at seduction, I have never seen her fail. She is also very good in the sack, energetic, willing and as nasty as a woman can be.
Lots of sexercise, so her body is nice and snug.

Your manhood is not being threatened, it is just old fashioned thinking. Most all wives need to have extra ** on the side, and it is something we should be honest about. Wives are hot, and need more ** than a husband can give them. Let her explore her sexuality, it will make your ** life much better at home!

That wasn't the case with my wife. She was ** around on me for several years. She used "health issues" as an excuse for refusing ** with me. She told me a couple years after our divorce, that she had so much guilt about her affairs that couldn't have ** with me or even being close without breaking down in tears. I told her that if she would have been honest with me, we probably could have worked something out.
You can have whatever relationship you want or not have a relationship at all. If she wants to go wh*ring around, she's going to do it with or without you.

This is awful advice from someone who obviously hates themself.

Hire a detective who specializes in divorce and you’ll have evidence and probably won’t have to pay alimony. Worth every penny.

Do you have any substantial evidence?