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Fat Wife insecure
I have gained weight over the years I’m now at 250 pounds I’m a size 18. I had pretty much given up on putting effort into trying to find flattering clothes and just tend to wear a fat dress or leggings. I have become very lazy and even cut my hair all off super short because I can’t be bothered doing it, I wear very little makeup it helps, but not much maybe it’s the glasses? I don’t really know why I have let myself become this way, just being lazy and comfortable I guess, I know my husband loves me. Anyway my husband had his Christmas work party and I thought I would put more effort into looking nice so I brought a new fat dress wore lipstick and even had my really short hair coloured and styled a bit I thought I looked ok and my husband said that I looked really nice, but then when we walked into the party, I could see so many attractive women and they looked totally hot with their perky ** small waist hot legs and ** dresses everywhere the were young beautiful and fresh. I immediately felt so ugly and over weight amongst them. My husband is a good looking guy and I could see that a couple of these attractive women were thinking he could do better. One of these women in particular came to chat with my husband and I could see her perky little cleavage instantly! She was so pretty and she looked at my husband with ** in her eyes and then looked at me and asked in shock Ohhh is this your wife? Lovely to meet you and she looked me up and down I felt so insecure and just fat and ugly! So I decided to cut that little meeting short and I headed towards the canapé table outside, It had been raining on and off throughout the night so ground was muddy, I was not used to wearing heels as I tried to navigate through the mud bits verses the dry bits I stumbled and slide and fell! I landed awkwardly with legs split open and my new dress was up my back exposing my huge ** with skin colour full brief ** for all to see I was flat on my stomach mud all over my belly and dress, my glasses landed elsewhere and even my lipstick had smudged across my face everyone saw me fall including my husband and his hot colleague who I heard her say oh dear with a soft giggle! A waiter tried to help me stand up but I was struggling because my glasses were in the mud and so I stumbled and fell awkwardly again backwards this time landing with legs wide open fully exposed! The whole crowd looked at me with pity and a few people came and helped me up including my husband. one nice older lady felt sorry for me and said let’s get you sorted I will get to the bathroom and clean you up you poor thing.
I was so embarrassed ! I never will go to my husband’s work party again!
Sounds more mental than physical. Get yourself together woman. You don't have to be thin to be attractive.. It's all about the attitude. Develop some self-esteem FFS. I'm a reasonably good looking guy with a high paying job. I'm a Vice President and full partner in my company. My wife is huge, 600lbs plus. She is also gorgeous with a stellar personality and a friendly charismatic demeanor that people naturally gravitate to. She developed and cultivated that persona over the years. It takes work but it's worth it for your own sake. When we have office functions she dresses up in one of her best custom "fat dress" has her beautiful red hair done and does her makeup. When she enters the room everyone stops a stares not because she is so fat but because she is so self-assured and it shines through her entire being. I usually just let her sit comfortably somewhere and before you know it, she is the center of attention of all my coworkers. I'm extremely proud to be seen with her and wouldn't trade her for all the thin wives in the world.
This sounds like a problem that exists only in your mind. Believe it or not being ** isn't as much about appearance but about attitude. Be ** to your husband and he'll see you that way.
If you really want to be less obese and more attractive then it is up to you. Decide and commit. Wallowing in self-pity is more unattractive than a heavy person.
And yeah, that cleavage showing young hottie is definitely thinking that your husband would like a taste of her and he’s thinking it too because you just don’t care about yourself.
He probably taps that babe at the office.
I would do you right now!
So sorry, sweetie. I'm a very fat and suuuuper lazy wife with a husband that loves me to death just the way I am. I've learned to just take a f_-_-you attitude at such parties and just enjoy myself. I love myself and my life. I pretty much do nothing at all around the house. I don't work. I just eat, relax, and do what I want, and my amazing husband won't have it any other way. I keep him happy in bed, and don't care what anyone else thinks. I hope this helps.