No longer attracted to my wife
In recent years my wife has gained a considerable about of weight. We have 5 kids so there is definitely some baby weight excess as well. She hasn’t bothered much with her appearence since her weight gain either, her focus is mostly the children. initially she tried to put effort in but then she had eye problems and now needs glasses permanently so doesn’t where eye makeup anymore, as she said it irritates her eyes. Then next thing to go was the hair she had lovely long hair but was finding it hard to deal with the kids so had it cut to a very short pixie style that makes her face larger and highlights her double chin. She breast feeds on demand which seems like all the time her areola’s and ** and are now a huge dark brown colour and her breast sag. Her wardrobe constists of granny undies, leggings or one of those motherly fat dresses. I gave her money and told her to go and buy some new clothes and she buys things for the kids instead. House is always messy and she has become lazy with it.
She always wants **, typically after she breast feeds the baby and puts there to bed and I oblige but I’m find that I’m thinking of other hot woman and I’m not really enjoying it as much as I used too. I actually prefer to ** so I can think of someone else. But she is always ready, sloppy and soaking wet,
Practically begging for it. she has had five kids so not the most tightest either, she rides me sometimes and all I see is her big belly jiggling sagging lacting leaking **, glasses and ugly hair cut and my ** starts to go, so I flip her for ** style and try to look past her big ** and pretend it’s a ** so I can go the distance. After ** she’s all lovie duvie and tells me how much she loves me and how great her ** was then asleep she goes. I honestly do love her she is a wonderful mother to our 5 children a good wife and person, she has a heart of gold and it would break her heart to know how it’s become a chore having ** with her, but I can’t get past how she has totally changed and she doesn’t seem to care about how she looks at all. I really thought that she would be a hot **. I look at my mates wives that have kids and they put effort into looking nice and as attractive as can be there house is tidy. My wife turns up to a bbq and has no issues with putting on a bikini with her body and starts chasing after the kids in front of everybody, her belly jiggling and ** wobbly for all to see.
The weight is one thing, but it all begins to add up. I love my wife too much to risk cheating and I would never leave her but the attraction is not there for me and I can’t help how I feel.
I'll happily takes your ** off your hands! Fat gals rock.
Unless this is a troll post , this seems like my fantasy. Hot wife domesticated into a fat unattractive mother. Super turn on, wish I could trade my skinny wife and kid for what you have!
Learn to like fat chicks. You're stuck with one. Also I have absolutely no sympathy for a guy that complains that his wife wants ** from him. ** it up buttercup.
This is true. I need to get past it. Especially because she deserves better.
I don't get your problem. You have a nice fat comfortable wife that wants to have sexual relations with you. WTF are you complaining about? Fat women are people too and despite your wife's weight gain she is still the same person you fell in love with, married and had children with. Grow up chief before you scar her emotionally.