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Time to dump my bf
We’ve been together 4 yrs and my bf broke the news he booked a cabin at hot springs for valentines day. i’m 31 & he is too. he did it without telling me first. he said ‘i gave you notice so you can take off the next day.’ not my issue. he didn’t tell me before hand is my issue. he also reserved a private hot springs experience & since the place is remote, he hired a local culinary student to come to our cabin to cook dinner. this is the freaky part.
the strange & scary part is how he’s telling me. each day he leaves for work he leaves a pink envelope on my phone. the first day had the reservations for the cabin, day two was the reservations for the hot springs experience, day three was a private dinner for two by the culinary student.. this is why i need to dump and run. yesterday i got a small pink box with a black dress and today i got a box with a ** set. you know a matching red bra & panty set with garter and red nylons! wtf! the note told me my final present will be given on valentines day at dinner! wtf!
after 4yrs i had no idea he was this controlling what i wear and when i go. i’m sure he is expecting ** that night. i’m so turned off and i’m going to cut him off.
since he’s obviously insane, i stopped staying the night with him & moved back with mom & dad. should i cut ties now or just wait till feb 13th? this guy needs a lesson taught. btw somehow my mom is against me. she is taking up for him!!!!
If you don’t want him i want him
Pretty sure the Valentines dinner includes you wearing your new outfit and the culinary student dipping his spoon into your pudding. BF will either assist at the same time or sit in the corner and make his own puff pastry.
You know this. The question is if you really want it or are just acting like you don’t but really do, yourself, want to be the buffet.