I’m in love with my best friend
I have a platonic friendship with a woman and we are very close. She’s beautiful, **, kind and fun. The problem is, we live in separate countries, she in America and me in Canada. I told her how I feel but being that she is more sensible when it comes to matters of the heart she didn’t see how it would work, and it’s a perfectly valid point. I love her so much but the circumstances are all wrong. It’s hard living this way. There is no other woman on this planet that I want more than her, and I mean that, but I just can’t have her and it breaks my heart. As it stands, i can give her the love of friendship. But I want more, much, much more. I adore her…I try to avoid looking at pictures of her because it makes it harder to live with these feelings.
Dude, you are in the friend zone. Not like you're living in Antarctica. You're practically neighbours!
Just go for it.