I love her but
I truly love my wife, but... She is really mean to me. We have been married for 15 years now. Whenever she is stressed she strikes out. Her anger lingers for days. If she is angry about something she will torment the person she is angry with until they blow up and respond. I am trying to teach our son to control his response to her. He is 13 now and is defying her. He usually does anything I ask. He respects me and never talks back to me. But last night he talked back to his mom and when I asked him to make up with her he would not. Usually her anger subsides after a day or so, I know it will this time also. If I try to confront her she makes my life miserable. I can't seem to stand up for myself.