Dominant **
By way of background my first wife left me because she did not like my kinks and interests. I tried internet dating and portrayed myself as heterosexual vanilla and had a few dates and short term relationships that were fair but did not last. I decided to take a risk and changed my profile description to reflect my inner desires. I emphasized that I was a controlling **. I was looking for a woman who would willingly submit and obey. I included a paragraph emphasizing that I respected consent and that I was looking for someone who was naturally submissive.
To my amazement, I found the woman who is now the love of my life. We joke that none of our friends have any idea of the extent of our relationship. I specify what she is to wear in social situations (but not when she goes to work). I insist that she calls me Sir. I indulge my ** by whipping her. On our first date, we talked about my sadistic desires. Second date and we discussed more. She was submissive but not a **. The third date we agreed would be one stroke of the cane. We did this and she took a deep breath. I wanted to make sure she was not feeling trapped and that saying yes to pain was made from a strong place not from a feeling of being trapped with no other option. After the one stroke we met up each day at public places. Cafe's and the like. I wanted her to know I would be there with after care but also that she was not trapped. We talked about the next caning. I said it would be 6 strokes and really hard. She agreed.
Now I regularly thrash her and then have her lie back for **. It's so nice. Totally obedient and submissive.
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