Just my luck

So, I like my best friend. ALOT. Him and I are always together, and if we aren't together, we are texting. He is nice, funny, handsome, just everything I want. Everyone around us thinks that we should date and we would be perfect for each other. It's just...He is more into guys than girls. not many people know this but it's true. And it SUCKS. Like, you can't even tell that he likes guys at all. I love him. I really just want him to see that we would be perfect for each other. I don't know what to do.. It's driving me crazy and eating me alive. I think about it 24/7.
He makes me feel like no one else has eveer before. And I love it.

Aug 11, 2010

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  • Karen... is that you???

  • I'm in the exact same situation.
    It's hard. And there's no right way to deal with it or make a relationship happen.

    If he is gay, or bi, it's something he has to come to terms with before you can ever have a relationship besides being friends.

    You don't want to end up falling in love with this guy, marrying him, and ten years later find out he's leaving you because he doesn't want to be with a woman.

    You can't force him to be with you. And don't make the same mistake I did. I slept with him, and he didn't talk to me for a long time because he felt like I was forcing him to be straight.

    Let him come to you, as hard as it is to wait. Once he decides what he wants, and is honest with you about it, you'll know what to do.

    The best thing I can tell you is, talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Don't trick him into doing something with you that in the end both of you will regret doing.


  • You can't change someone's sexual preference. I know you love him, but if he likes guys more then girls, you can't force him to be with you. Maybe you and everyone else say your perfect, but what about him? As his best friend, you should be there to support his decisions, not wishing for "what if."

  • Maybe actually talk about orientation and what HE wants. What is he looking for in a relationship? That sort of stuff.

    If it turns out that there is a slice of him still interested in v*****, that is your cue. Maybe not right after that but later both get a few drinks into yourselves. Ask him that you are afraid that a guy might not like you and he would be a great friend for you to check his junk out and practice oral s**. Just practice, maybe not go all the way and don't bring him to o*****. Then he'll be begging for release. Score!

  • he is may gay & u dont no bout it...........

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