LOVE OF MY LIFE?
So Im in a relationship with someone who i feel is basically my best friend. our relationship started off rocky because he still had this crazy stalker ex. but we got past all that and fell head over heels for each other. So at first there was a rumor that he had herpes, which i did take seriously and i did get tested because we were having ALOT of unprotected s**. it came back negative so stupidly i didnt even make him get tested. (the stalker ex started the rumor btw so i jus was like p***** thinkin it was an attempt to break us up) So anyway recently he was put in jail and during the inmate health evaluation he tested positive for genital herpes. i still dont have it and i do believe he is sorry for hiding it from me and i do understand that telling someone you have a std is difficult. And even tho he is wrong in this situation (HE FU*KED UP and deserves no EXCUSES) i find myself still in love. im really just at a standstill as far as what i should do. i really feel like he is the "ONE" no matter how cliche it sounds. i love him with every fiber of my being. But at the same time how can i continue to build a life with someone who has this UNCUREABLE std. its just a really hard decision and i cant really talk to any of my friends or family because EVERYONE HATES HIM!ugh. help me... i jus need some feedback from and outsider on my dilemma