Im having an affair and I cant decide who I want to be with
I've been in a relationship with George for a little over 2.5 years. It was rocky in the beginning but eventually everything panned out. We say we want to be with eachother for the rest of our lives. While I would like to be with him for the rest of my life, sometimes I doubt that.
There are things I like and don't like about George such as how he handles his anger (extremely bad) and a lot of times I feel like I am putting all the effort into the relationship. However, he does make me laugh, we do enjoy eachother's company and I am extremely comfortable around him.
At work I met James. He's handsome and we've been secretly seeing eachother. He doesn't know about George and thinks I am single. I really like James, he's completely different from George. James is extremely generous, intelligent, and doesn't have an anger problem like George.
George is a much better lover and more endowed than James is; but James still pleases me. However, I am not in a relationship with James and I don't know if he wants that. I don't know if I should break up with George and try to be with James, or forget about James and stay with George