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Married and cheating
I am married and in love with another man, he lives in a different state, we both drive 2 hours whenever we can and meet in a hotel for the BEST ** ever! I feel a little guilty, and I don't want to stop!
It doesn't make any sense to stop if it helps your mind and body. Sometimes we see a man and we think: "Oh, my God, this is THE ONE", and after a year or so, he's the same as all others... Keep doing it until you can make an educated decision. But if you start taking risks ("I was shopping with Chelsea" - he may call Chelsea... Or, never use your cellphone for texting - use only Yahoo Messenger from work, if possible, not from your home computer - I'm talking from personal experience), chances are that your husband will become suspicious eventually, so be careful. Good luck! :)
If you really love the guy who you are having an affair with, why don't you just end your marriage and be with the guy who you really want to be with. Lying to your husband or to yourself is not going to help you feel better.
So keep doing it but be very careful. Don't let your horniness get ahead of your caution. If you want things to stay the way they are make that clear to the guy too.