My mest up world

He usesd to tell me that I was his girl. That he always loved me. That he would protect me. But how can he protect me from himself. It killed me to see him transform into a drunk. He used to be fine back when we were freshman in highshool but 2 years can really change a man. The popularity went to his head. He bagan drinking more and more until he wasn't the same person I loved. So about three months ago I called it off.

Two weeks ago he beat me.I begged him to stop but he wouldn't. There was no emotion in his eyes no regret. He left me a b***** heep on the ground behind the community center. I laid there for 30 minutes before my best friend Joel finally found me. My leg is broken and I had a mild concussion. I've told everybody that I fell. Everyone exept Joel.

Last tuseday Joel went right up to him and punched him. He started yelling at him saying " Why did you do that to her!". He had no clue what Joel was even talking about. Aparently that night he got so drunk that he didn't remember what happend. When Joel told him what he did he was appaled. He couldn't believe it.

The next day he showed up at my door tears running down saying over and over that he was sorry. That he would never mean to do anything like that. He told me I should report him to the police. He said he would quit drinking forever. I didn't know what to do or what to say. And now I'm just wondering why the lord would put a 17 year old through this. This story is no one knows exept me, Joel, and him.

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  • I have been in an abusive relationship for the last four years of my life. But I'm afraid of losing him, so I let him beat me. I know its wrong, but he's all I want. He's all I could ever ask for. I know what you are going through. He has broken my jaw, my leg, both my arms. He's put me in the hopsital countless times. He's cheated, and begged for me to forgive him constantly.
    I don't know what else to do besides continue to stick by his side. I cant tell you what you should do, or what is best for you to do, because I don't even know.

  • Should have taken his advice and called the police. YES YOU STILL CAN CALL THE POLICE DO IT NOW!

  • It's time for you to say goodbye to him. Once the beatings start they don't stop. Things only get worse. And he may cry and promise never to hurt you again, but usually the beatings continue. In rare cases, an abuser gets counseling and a ray of hope dawns, but that is rare and the trend is a continuation of the violence against the woman. Some women they call enablers because they take the beatings and make excuses for the violence. In the worse cases, the woman blame themselves. You need to get away from him. You deserve better than that, and the odds are against him fixing himself. You should seek help with this by talking to a women's group that deals with domestic violence so you can get a better perspective on this and learn precisely what you need to do. I'm sorry that happened to you. Don't throw yourself away on someone who is going to keep hurting you. You deserve better than that.

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