I am writing this confession today to seek some opinions. Okay so I have been with the father of my kids for 8 years, he works a full time job and supports us well, I go to school full time. I take care of everything like the kids the cooking the cleaning, I pretty much do everything for him. But he is a alcoholic. At his job they are not strict about drinking so he can drink and work at the same time. he drinks everyday and he drives like that too, he doesnt have a license either, sometimes when hes drunk, he blacks out, he turns into this really mean person, its gotten to the point where i dont even want to drink anymore because of him and i never really did in the first place, Ive tried to tell him how this makes me feel it goes okay for a little while then hes right back on his track, Im scared for him, I want him to be around when our kids are grown, I want him to see everything they accomplish, I dont know what goes through his head its like none of this occurs to him, like he doesnt care, I am willing to support him in anyway but he just has to make that step and realize what hes doing to us, hes already admitted to being a alcoholic but he still drinks, my grampa drank all the time and i seen my gramma go through what i am going through, my grampa had a stroke when he was in his late 50s and hasnt been the same, he cant even remember us, any advice would be appreciated, thanks.