my closetest friend is really stupid

my closetest friend is really stupid. like I get mad at her for not thinking. she gets together with a guy who treats everyone in her life like s*** (he would threaten me, spread nasty rumors, and hurt me any way he could) she basically gave the definition to "love is blind". they broke up finally after a lot of off and on situations, but the problem continues when he found a new girlfriend. she seduced him to give him a good reason to break up with the new girl. and they kept fooling around after the initiated break-up. I don't get it. I never expected her to be this malicious and jealous and just plain slutty. she gets pissy at me if I try to confront her about it, so I don't know what to do. I love her to death and I've never been closer to another person.. but right now I'm baffled. I don't know her at all. Its not my business, but you would think she'd keep it to herself then.. right? why would you tell people something like this if you dont want negetive feedback? what should I do?

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  • My nose is kept out, but she brings it up anyhow, and not in the "I need help" sort of way. Trust me, I do not want to know.

  • Sounds to me like your friend has a real lack of self esteem issues. There's no way she'd go back into that situation unless she felt that she couldn't do any better. You've tried to talk to her but it didn't work so let her be. Some people have to learn the hard way.

  • Keep your nose out unless she asks for your help. She's p***** that this other girl moved in on him while the relationship was rocky. Now she's desperately trying to hold onto a f*** buddy. Other fish in the sea... that sort of stuff.

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