I work with a girl, and we used to

I work with a girl, and we used to speak all the time. But then i told her how i feel about her and now we barely speak. Yet still, her best friend, whom she lives with at the moment keeps telling me that she likes me, and that she's not talking because she's shy. I wonder if she's telling the truth or anything because every time I look at her, she's looking in my general direction... all but once. I believe that I am completely in love with her, I would die for her, she's more important to me than any of my family, but all the other people at work tell me to get over her. They have no f****** idea how hard it is... and I really want to get to know her. Please give me some advice.

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  • If you're too shy on this one, you may regret it for a long time. Think about it. Her friend is either lying to you or not. (I suspect she's not.) If she's lying and you ask her for lunch or do something similar, the object of your desire will say no thank you. Ok, now you know. Big deal. On the other hand, if her friend is not lying, you ask her out. She says yes. You can then talk. Wonderful. This is WIN WIN. So don't be a wimp. Just ask her out for coffee or lunch or whatever. It's no big deal--just a meal.

  • Yeah the best way to handle this is to ask her yourself. If she's shy then she's not going to approach you. Sit her down and talk to her and you'll find your answer.


  • Well the best and easiest way to find out if she has any interest in you is to simply ask her out to lunch. If she goes and you two can talk a bit you will get a better feel whether it is a go or not.

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