I'm cheating on my husband

My husband and I have been having problems pretty much since the minute we got married. I told him a while back that I wasn't happy and was thinking about leaving him and he told me that he'd kill himself if I ever left, so I stayed. About 2 months ago I told him that I needed a trial separation to see if I could gather my thoughts and make this marriage work. He agreed, but said he still wants us to live together for the sake of the kids, we would just not sleep together. About a week ago I met a guy in an online chat room and we really hit it off. He gave me his number and asked me to call him. I did and we had phone s** that night and every night since then. He lives 3 hours away from me, so I may or may not meet him in person, but I'm starting to fall for him. He is everything my husband never was. I will never tell my husband about this because he is extremely possessive, jealous and violent and I'd be scared for the other man's safety. I feel trapped. I want out, but I don't want to be the reason he commits suicide :-(

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  • If husband wants 2 die let him enjoy lover

  • Sounds like a very unhealthy relationship, on both sides. Maybe see a couple's therapist and have them help determine what would be best for the marriage.

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