Confusing times

I am being forced by my family to get married because its the right age, they say. But I want to hold it off for two reasons-
1. i just quit my job and am currently doing a course that would help my career ahead. I want to be able to support myself (i.e. get a job) before even considering marriage. But I still have doubts whether I will be able to get one after the certification.

2. Currently, I am in two weird relationships. One, with my ex-bf with whom i broke up 2 years ago, but still keep in touch wondering why and whether it was the right thing to break up. And two, a very dear friend who is a lot like me and has helped me a lot in my life and for whom I might have feelings for. But for both of them, I dont feel my heart leaping out, like the head-over-heels feeling.

I feel I am screwed in my thinking and doomed, esp coz i see everyone around me progressing in life and I, on the other hand, am unemployed and living with my parents. Please suggest about the relationship issue, whom should I hook up with, or is it better if I start afresh and go the arranged marriage way?

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  • Eat 5 yr old girl p****, you'll love it!,

  • GO TASTE A LONG HARD C***.

  • That;'s exacltly what you need

  • Never trust anyone who types in all caps....just sayin.

    CC

  • GEORGE WASHING WROTE EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO LIVE LIFE THIER WAY U DONT WANT TO B MARRIED STICK UP TO UR PARENTS SAY NO THEY DONT CONTROL UR LIFE BELIVE THE CATHOLIC CHURCH GOD BLESS U IN THE NAME OF THE FATHER AND THE SON AND OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AMEN TO THE LORD

  • GOD DOES EXIST I TAKE THT IN OFFENCE TO THE HOLY CATHOLIC APOSTOLIC CHUCH GOD WORKS THRU UR LIFE DONT LET THE NEGATIVITY OF THESE MORONS GET TO U DEAL WITH THE COSEQEUCES B POSITIVE WEN SOMEONE IS MAD (LIKE THIS NON-BELIVER IN GOD) THEY SAY STUPID STUFF GOD IS SUFFERING WITH U HE DIED ON THE CROSS 4 ALL U NON-BELIVERS HOW DID U COME TO EARTH HOW DID U MAKE IT IN LIFE DID U THINK ABOUT THT.

  • never arranged marriage i'd say start fresh deal with the consequences
    jesus freak he doesn't guide you like that, proof?, ask jesus what my name is you won't find out unless i tell you, god doesn't exist thats perfect proof...

  • UR AN ASS GO TO H***

  • Ask Jesus into your life, and ask Him for His perfect will to be done in your life. When He is leading you, you won't go astray. God bless you, and best wishes for a happy and prosperous life!

  • If you are at all unsure of entering a marriage, do not get married.

    Marriage is sacred. Don't let your family dictate something that will affect you every day for the rest of your life. They don't have to live your life, you do.

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