Is it real? HELP

Okay so I have a boyfriend and the other day I met his friend and we have kinda been talking a lot since but he only talks to me at night and it's been a while though but I don't know, everyone says he's kinda a j*** and he wanted to be friends with benefits with this one girl and to f*** my friend, I asked him about it and he said he was messing with one and the other is like his sister, later that night he told me he thought he loved me, I didn't know what to say but he didn't push anything then he did tell me he loved me and I want to believe him, we talk about s** a lot and I'm not the innocent type sweet girl I want rough type naughty badness, but I don't want to be used, he has a girlfriend and I told my one friend who used to know him and she told me not to believe him and that guys just want to compete for his friends girl, I can't see me being with my boyfriend forever and I really like him and I have a lot of insecurities and I just want to believe he wants me so when he says he loves me I believe it but is it real or is he just like trying to f*** me and dump me so what is it? Is he just some d*** and doesn't really care? What?

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  • To be honest, I'd stay away from both guys. If you are already tempted to cheat on your boyfriend and you can't see yourself with him later on down the line, then it's time to walk away. It will hurt the both of you for a while now, but trust me- it'll hurt worse when you eventually cheat on him, especially if you end up cheating with his best friend. (Oh, and his bestie will lie and call you every name in the book, saying that you came on to him and that you're the one to blame in this situation... and your boyfriend will believe him and not you.)

    As for the other guy goes, he's just in it for the thrill of the chase. He doesn't love you. He's just telling you what you want to hear so you'll spread your legs for him. You're not just some easy p**** for him to pick up and use, so you shouldn't be hesitating over this like you are. The guy is a player and you're just the latest target.

    If he really wanted to be with you then he'd not only have broken up with his girlfriend, but he'd tell his other girls that it's over and he'd also be telling your boyfriend that he's hot for you. Since he's obviously NOT doing this, it's pretty clear that you're just another trophy and odds are that he's done this with other girls that his friends have dated. That he's able to trick and con you so easily should be a huge sign that he's done this before and does it often.

    Seriously hon, for your own self esteem and conscience, walk away. There is no winning here and no matter how good the s** might seem like it'd be, it's not going to be worth how used, dirty, and guilty you'll feel afterwards.

  • This guy is TROUBLE (yes in capitals) - stay away

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