22-year-old virgin

I confess I am a 22-year-old virgin. If you saw me on the street, you would never guess in 1 million years that I was. I'm not fat, I'm not ugly. In fact, I've had numerous people tell me that I look like Tom Cruise.

The problem is, I was raised in a really strictly religious family that pretended like s** didn't exist. When I was a kid if two people kissed on TV My mom would get up and change the channel.

Because of this I never learned how to talk to girls and I am now scared to go out and talk to them or approach them. I have also developed some health problems and I am scared I might die a virgin. Every year I tell myself "this is the year I'm going to lose my virginity" but it never seems to happen. I desperately want to have s**.

There are friends of mine who are getting married and having kids at my age and I haven't even had s**, I feel like such a loser. I have thought about having s** with a escort but I don't think I could go through with it. It seems too cheap and dirty and the girl doesn't even care about you. Plus, I looked up some escorts online and there arent even any attractive ones in my city.

I am not religious at all, and I don't have a problem losing my virginity to a slutty girl. Every day I lose hope and feel like my life is passing before me before my own eyes. If you have any advice for me. Please tell me.


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  • Do not worry too much, I was just like you, started counting from 23 and broke my virginity at 27, after that, I discovered s** is over-rated, or I had higher expectations. So do not start thinking that you will die a virgin, you will definitely get someone along the way. There are many virgin men than they would like to admit

  • There's more to life than just s**... ;P

    I'm a college grad with a similar situation. Never had "the talk" with my dad, i'm a guy btw. just focus on socializing more and making friends. It's not all about s**!

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