Taking a shot with my wife's friend

I’ve been married for about 10 years and have 2 kids. I’m not unhappy in my marriage but not totally pleased either. Anyways, about a year ago, I started becoming good friends with one of my wife’s friends. We are together a couple of times per week since our kids share the same after school activities – sometimes with my wife and sometimes without. She is very flirty and I’ve always enjoyed the attention and nothing further.

The past couple of months, I feel that things have heated up and we’ve been flirting more and more. I’ve become really interested in her and want to test things out. Recently, my wife found some flirtatious texts and emails between us and said that she agreed that while they seemed innocent, they were still inappropriate and wanted me to stop contacting her directly. The problem is not only do I not want to stop but I want to take it further.

I feel things are at a point where I need to ‘take a shot’ at the other girl and either get things going or end things completely.

Please do not give any comments about "don't do it man"

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  • Well you on here asking for advice and not wanting to hear the down side of your question shows that you maybe be a little to immature to even be considering taking a shot.... maybe grow up mentally a little more to the point where you can think for yourself....

  • Ask her first, but you should really divorce your wife if you want to take it further. The result of not severing the rope with her could be really bad, and I myself wouldn't risk it.

  • She's probably waiting for you to get the ball rolling. ;)

  • I hate to advocate cheating, but if you're going to do it - be smart, make sure that she wants to take it further. Make sure she's going to keep her mouth shut. And also think about if you do get caught, are you ready for the ramifications? I'm not trying to tell you what to do, just think about EVERYTHING before you decide. Good luck.

  • You gotta take that shot, dude. Go for it. Otherwise, you'll never know how good it could have been. Who knows? She may be "the one". Tap that ass......it's waiting for you. And you KNOW she wants that s***.

  • Do yourself a favor and save yourself divorce, alimony, child support, heartache, etc. Walk away. If you want to ruin your life, go ahead and "take a shot".

  • That's the p**** way out. That advice is either from a girl or a girly man.

  • That's probably advice from someone who's PAYING alimony and child support for "taking a shot"!!!

  • Don't do it man. Yours in Christ, Martin

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