I want to sleep with a married coworker, and I think she does too
There's this gorgeous girl I work with that's been married for a couple years I think. The typical super hot girl in high school you couldn't even talk to because you were so nervous, only both of us are years past high school. We flirt and talk and every so often we get a little more detailed than a married woman and a single guy should. She's told me, on different occasions, that she was very "active" before marriage, bisexual and really wants to be with another woman again, and other stuff I won't go into. The other day she said she feels like there's some sexual tension between us and there shouldn't be because she's married. I don't her that didn't matter, and she said ya I know. There can be sexual tension between anyone, marriage doesn't automatically deter it. In generalized statements she's said she doesn't want to cheat on her husband, but its never been directly asked or suggested we do it. I don't want to make her do something she'll regret, but I think she wants it and I'm sure she knows I do. I kind of feel like it's the classic "you make the move so I don't feel responsible" attitude. I also feel like if I just say "so you wanna f***?" it will kill this little game that's going on and it might go somewhere if we keep playing it. I'm open to suggestions.