I know my girlfriend has lied to me on

I know my girlfriend has lied to me on several occasions and I know that she cheated on me, I have circumstantial evidence and some of our ex friends told me some of the stuff. So when I asked her about it she only looked down and held her face in her hands and told me she didnt do anything wrong, that it was all lies, however I still dont belive her. I have tried several times to get her to tell me the truth, I gave up everything I had for her and then to be s*** on like this, heres the real stupid part, I love her and cant help it, not sure what to do, however all this has really robbed me of my self esteem and emotinal happiness, all I want is the truth and then we could move past it.

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  • Well i am that girl. that lying cheating girl. and im still in love with you 2. i cant help it either. forgive her and forget. continue to love her because shes the best thing in your life.

  • » oh not tha stupid f** alert are u 9 years old?

    ^^ Another one bites the dust ....
    F** Alert !! ^^

  • oh not tha stupid f** alert are u 9 years old?

  • Oh boy, another one .....

    F** ALERT!!
    Punk ass b****!

  • IM GOING THROUGH THE SAME SITUATION, I'M GETING STRONGER, MY GUY STILL LYING SAYIN HE NOT CHEATING THAT EVERYONE LYING ON HIM NO MATTER WHAT EVIDENCE I PUT IN HIS FACE. THE DIFFERENCE IS, I PUT HIM OUT MY HOUSE, NOW HE HAS NO MONEY, NO FOOD NO PLACE TO STAY, ITS JUST UNFORTUANT THE GIRL IS SPENDING HER EVERY PAY CHECK KEEPING HIM N A MOTEL, BUT HE DO CONTACT ME EVERY DAY BEGING TO COME BACK, I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART BUT BECAUSE HE CAN'T TELL THE TRUTH I REFUSE TO DEAL WITH HIM AND ITS HARD AS H*** TO AVOID HIM BUT YOU HAVE TO CAUSE UR BETTER THEN BEING TREATED LIKE SHYT, DONT EVER LET NO ONE TAKE UR SELF ESTEEM AWAY FROM YOU, UR IMPORTANT ITS THEM THATS F***** UP, H*** IF U SAW THE GIRL HE CHEATED ON ME WITH U'LL LOOSE UR SELF ESTEEM BUT I REFUSE TO LET HIM GET THE BEST OF ME, JUST KEEP MOVIN ON, U'LL MAKE IT, H*** I EM AND THE SAD PART IS, IM PREGNANT BY THIS FOOL!

  • Google "Love Addiction" or check out the book, "Facing Love Addiction"....The best advice is to save yourself the heart ache!.....I'm reading the book now & the advice I gave is easier said than done, but I'm getting stronger...and if my guy doesn't stop lying & get help immediately, I'm not marrying him, and he knows it! Bless you.

  • Trust your gut insticts. 9 out of 10 times they are right - especially in matters of the heart. If you think she's cheating and lying about it, she probably is.

  • do u realy want to spend your life with this lier i went thru this until i got tire and woke up do the same so many options out there,good luck!

  • I think that if you are positive she is lying, you have to make her take you seriously in order for her to tell the truth. You need to put your foot down. If I were you, I'd tell her that unless she is willing to tell the truth, that the relationship is off. Don't let her convince you of lies. You know what you believe. If you give her an indication that maybe you could get through this, she will probably be more honest...but she has to take you seriously. It's not OK for someone to do something s***** and lie about it like she is doing...and if she feels that she can, she will...

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