Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

My daughter is 23 and she and her husband have been postponing having kids (or so I thought). My wife is 45, but could still have a baby. I had never connected any of those dots until you mentioned it, and it shocked me so bad that I decided to call my wife's sister last night. I didn't say anything at all about what you said or about what was happening with my wife trying so hard to recruit our daughter, and my wife's sister obviously didn't know anything about the recruitment. But she said something that was even more shocking to me even though she didn't mean it to be. She told me that our daughter had stopped taking her birth control pills about a month ago. She assumed, naturally, that our daughter had stopped taking them because it meant she and her husband had decided to start trying for a child. But now I'm worried that what you said was going to happen is actually happening. My wife had been taking b-c while we were caring for a foster child, but that child went back to live with her birth-mother around Christmas and she is graduating high school in two weeks. I hope this craziness isn't about to get even crazier. God how I hope.

I think in the news early this month,a 47 year old woman had triplets.In 2012 in the UK 154 babies were born to women over age 50.The US numbers I saw recently were much higher but I cant find them quickly enough(google this title and you can read a Psychology today article about this "50 Is the New 40 for Having Babies").What I am saying to you in so many words is that your ex is still within her baby bearing years without a doubt.Your daughter is in her prime..just a guy looking at her alone can get her knocked up,lol. What I am guessing has happened is that your ex has this empty nest feeling and she is tired of waiting to have a grandkid.She may have stopped taking bc so that she can have a baby.She also may be talking your daughter into having one so that they possibly can be pregnant at the same time and most likely by the same guy.There is a very high likelihood that one or both of them will be pregnant before the end of the year. The saddest part of this to you is that YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL over what these two women are going to do with their ** or wombs.A woman is gonna do what a woman is gonna do,right or wrong. You may say you may not want to see your ex's baby once here but that baby is gonna be raised in your former marital home.You may say you don't recognize your grandchild if born out of wedrock,but its still your grandchild;meaning whatever these women decide to do,you are still in the equation by default.You cant even pick up the phone and ask them not to,they will simply tell you to stop sticking yourself in their wombs.Bottom line is this scenario applies to almost all men,its life.Just deal with whatever comes out of this whenever it does.I am surprised your daughter's aunt knows about the birth control but hey,women talk,lol.

You don't even know how right you are. A good friend of mine who lives where I used to live (I've not gone into details on my family history with anybody here where I am now) says that in the same way my wife is influencing our daughter to "date" one or both of these black guys, or (who knows?) maybe more, I can influence her against it, and he says that since I feel so strongly about it being a mistake that I should try to influence her to just stay with her husband and not stray at all, black or white. Part of my problem is just what you said, that neither of them has to listen to me and they probably wouldn't anyway. But the bigger problem is that if I talked to either my wife or our daughter about the recruitment or about my wife influencing our daughter to cheat, they will both immediately know how I know about it; that is, they will know who told me. It's a friend of my wife's, a woman who was a bridesmaid in our wedding long ago. She and my wife still talk, but my wife knows that this woman disapproves of my wife's life choices and life style, and that she strongly disapproves of her trying to get our daughter to live the same life. If I say something even close to this or even hint that I know what's going on, they will both know how the information got to me. So I'm pretty much ** for trying to convince my wife to stop recruiting our daughter for God only knows what, and for trying to convince our daughter not to be unfaithful to her husband. Even five or six years ago I would never have believed that I could have this problem with these women, but now I believe that my wife is vicious enough to humiliate me by getting herself and our daughter knocked up by the same black guy at the same time. I wouldn't have even seen this as a possibility if you hadn't connected the dots. I hope we're both wrong, but I've stopped betting against my wife's level of perversion.

I have two little boys with a lady soon to be 30.We broke up weeks after meeting but somehow ended up with two kids within a two year period.She has done many things to humiliate me and she mostly does them directly to me,my two daughters,mutual friends and extended family members.She is very calculating and gives me no peace or warning.She despises,ignores or twists anything I say.The latest has been shocking to me.She decided, last November,to chase after and be overly friendly with a 22 year old cousin of mine who had just moved in with me temporarily.I explained to both of them how terrible their friendship was and it seems like my cousin listened(he thought she wanted to help him get oriented and settle) and the lady took a low profile but she is very angry with me.My cousin has moved out now and, amazingly, got an apartment in a complex across the fence from that of my kids mom. I suspect they have something going but am not for sure and even if they did its really non of my business. But it bothers me and concerns me because the woman wants a daughter and I don't want to try giving it to her,so she may use my cousin to accomplish her agenda and humiliate me some more.A friend sent me something tonight saying "Man was sent to earth to suffer.Woman was sent to earth to make sure it happens.I am proud of my hearth.It has been played,stabbed,cheated,burned,and broken.But somehow still works".I feel you but hang in there,am sure there is more in store for you,me and millions of men in the world from women in their lives,those who have departed or been in their lives and those who are yet to come.