Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

My wife has dated black men off and on during the course of our 25+ yr marriage but she had a partial hysterectomy in her late 20s so she only ever had our two children and never had the chance to have a black baby because she didn't start dating blacks until after the procedure.

What is the most turn on for her dating black guys? Does she let you date anybody else?It sounds like you are all in bed with this arrangement?

Her primary interests are pretty much the norm: ** size, difference in skin color and texture, being dominated by a black, their animal desire and aggression, etc. But the main thing she loves is the fact that black men ** in gushers, and just almost never even stop **. She loves getting filled up with it and then leaking it out for hours after. I let her do it because I thought it would help with her recovery from the partial hysterectomy. But she went WILD with it and could not EVER get enough. Now......its just a part of our life. I am never allowed to date outside the marriage: this is something special just for her.

You are very unselfish and caring it sounds like. If she is happy you are happy. Does she bring lovers to your house or she does it elsewhere? Do you think your friends or hers know of your arrangement?

Thanks for putting a positive spin on it. I do like thinking that I'm being a caring husband, but in reality, it's probably just that I realize I can't do nothing about it: she "went black" as they say, and there was no reversing that. Once she got the taste in her mouth (and other parts), she was going to keep doing them. She was going to go after them, and they were definitely going to be coming after her (the word gets around among black men, it seems). As for where they make love, it was always elsewhere at the beginning, but soon she started asserting herself more and more I our marriage, and enjoyed rubbing my face in the adulteries she was engaging in, so she insisted that she be allowed to bring them home to our house, and even into our bed, and on those nights I was sent to the guest room, or was free to leave, she didn't care: she was going to ** these men WHEN and WHERE and HOW she wanted them, ALWAYS, without even the slightest regard for me. As far as I know, none of my friends know about these other men, but three of her friends know. The three of her friends that know also date blacks, and sometimes two or more or all four will ** one black man. If my guy friends ever discovered what Claudia was up to, and that I was not stopping it, I really don't know what I would do, I really truly do not know. Just the thought of it frightens me.

I wrote to you a couple yrs ago about a relationship I was trying to start with a black man and you helped me connect with him. Just wanted to write and wish you -- and whatever lucky white woman or women you get with today -- a very Happy Valentines Day!

Happiest Valentines Day to you too and thanks much. How is that relationship going for the two of you?

Thank you so very much for responding to my note, that is really generous and sweet. He and I are doing very well, even though we've had to keep the relationship quiet since both of us are married to other people. But we love each other dearly and the ** has been magnificent, and it keeps getting better all the time. I doubt that we'll ever be able to get married, but that's really okay: we both love being together whenever we're able to do so, and we both love the deliciousness of our sweet adultery. Having children also looks like quite a longshot but even that is okay.......most of the time. :) Even though I would love to bear a child for this wonderful man. Have a great evening with whomever you intend to make love to on this special day for lovers. My man and I are about to meet this afternoon for two hours, before spending the evening with our spouses. Our bodies need one another first and foremost.

Thank you so much for such a quick response. I am glad you got to spend time with both your lover and hubby today;keeps the heart healthy! I took my lady to a Greek restaurant for dinner this evening and we had a great time. She has to work early tomorrow so she is in bed,am a night owl. One thing I want to ask of you;please give me a brief description of your initial situation as posted here. I want to read about your situation so that I can be up to speed. Thank you so much,keep enjoying and stay connected.You are a success story:)

I appreciate your taking time to write me. And I'm so so sorry I didn't reply sooner but this particular page can be very hard to find sometimes. I wrote you about my desire for a man named Victor who I know through work (we don't exactly work together, at least not in the same company or building). You wrote so many things to me that turned out to be exactly true! The main one was this: "I must assure you that married or not, you are going to have and enjoy this guy: you both will emerge sexually victorious." You were so right, and it happened within a week after you wrote that to me. Within ONE WEEK! Part of the reason you were correct, other than just seeing how badly I wanted him in my life and in my body was something you wrote with that first observation: "He is probably dying to enjoy you. He most likely masturbates daily or makes love to his wife while thinking about you, or wishing you were the one he was doing it to." He said almost exactly that to me, and in almost exactly those words: he had been wanting me since we first met! He said I was the source of all of his filthiest fantasies. And we were both ** our spouses while thinking of each other: we were cheating before we even started to cheat!!! Isn't that amazing??? Yes, it is, and it's even more amazing that you knew all that before I even knew it. I'm glad that you were able to make love with a favorite white lover of yours on Valentines Day, and I still love what you are up to in your personal life: I know you will soon have multiple bi-racial babies and many white lovers begging to get knocked up by your magnificent seed.

I'm 21, white female, and have only dated white guys. I'm also slightly racist, due to my upbringing. I don't fully understand it, but I'd love to have my egg coated by a black guy. Then again, I used to do drugs and engage in self-harm when I was younger, so things can be convoluted sometimes.

Why exactly do you feel you are slightly racists,or what really motivates you to want your eggs coated by a black guy?

Well, I'm racist because I think non-white people are generally inferior in most things. I also believe that blacks, in particular, have a stronger animal nature which makes them better for giving **, which is why I still think about ** one, despite my racist attitudes.

Other than blacks,what other animal would you like to have ** with? What turns you on about having ** with animals? Do you.therefore,feel as though white men are sexually inferior when compared to black men?

Other animals might be Hispanics, but no Asians. And, yes, white men are inferior in the sack. That is a given.

....** fession post....

Whatever you do -- and I mean WHATEVER you do -- do NOT get involved with a millennial. Those children are the most unbelievably self-centered and unthinking bunch of morons I've ever encountered. They are getting older, every day, but not one of them is getting any smarter or more aware. She might give you a baby, but she will ruin your life in the process. Steer clear. For you own good.

Haha,I am sure I won't be interested in anybody born in 2004. But I like your caution.

....dude.......that generation (aka the "me" generation) started bein born in the mid-80s. you probably already dated -- and ** -- lots of them. they easy to spot......they egos are hangin out they **.... :0

You are right,it's a 1982 to 2004 generation I believe . I just mentioned the tail end of it, as they may be too young for me. Two of my kids mom's are of that generation,mid 80s, and you are correct.

The original observation about avoiding millennial women is absolutely correct: they are unbelievably selfish and entitled. And you'll never be able to satisfy her demands.......or get her to stop talking about herself. Find a white woman in her late thirties or early forties who wants a child really badly. That's your best bet. Good luck and good hunting!

Sometimes a girl just needs a black **. but sometimes she needs a black baby.

So very true. I know for sure there is more to your statement than meets our eyes. Share or elaborate please.

I've lost a husband and a live-in boyfriend because of my appetites. I told them both going in that I love black men but only married ones who won't demand my "hand" in marriage. They both said that they could handle me dating black and they sort of did but then when the black babies came they both bolted. They said it was humiliating with me carrying a black child in my arms. The boyfriend lasted longer after the baby was born but he eventually skipped out too. I have a mixed race girl who is 6 and a mixed race boy who is almost 2. I started getting the hunger for blacks before I was 12 and I've never lost it (and don't want to). I'm 27 now. Sometimes my hunger for black men can be satisfied by ** alone. But sometimes.........I get achy for a black baby to carry in me. My first pregnancy was for a white man but it wasn't satisfying. Having a black baby is very different and you start wanting it in you which didn't happen for the white baby: I just got pregnant....no big deal. Sometimes I look at a black man and I think "I want his ** ** in me". But sometimes I look at one and I think "I want his ** baby in me." It's just nature at work I think, there's no explaining it or understanding it. But either way whether the white girl wants the black ** or the black baby there's no stopping it. She's going to get it. One way or another we are going to get that in us.

^this girl^ said it just right. we need what we need and we love what we love. i am one of those lucky girls who know this to be true from our own lives. black is what we need. black is what we love. I've known what i needed and loved and i have known what was good for me ever since before i became a teenager. i think the problem with a lot of white girls is that they don't all know what is good for them. they have to be taught.

Years ago,I met a 20 year white girl who had never dated a black guy before then,although she was not a virgin. I had to sort of coax her to try me for **. She was inexperienced so I had to teach her a few things over time. She so loved ** with me that she would sneak out of her parents house to come see me very frequently. She had told me once that "you are so good for me,you are all I crave". I thought that was so sweet. But her parents did not enjoy having her messing with me, so they sent her to college out of state and we lost contact.

When I was much younger,I read a novel set in India titled So Many Hungers by Bhabani Bhattacharya(1947). In it,the author deals with "hunger for food, hunger for money, hunger for **, hunger for fame and name, finally hunger for freedom"(Rani).At the time,people did whatever they could to satisfy their hungers. That novel came to mind because of your use of the word 'hunger', and the fact that you ** for black men, and their seed for your babies(a noble thing).It sounds to me that indeed the white guys chickened out on you because of your appetites. I personally dated many married women, and for many years, because I knew none of them will ask me for marriage or more time than she had for **. Since you seem to be wanting to marry a white guy but raise bi-racial kids,it may be a little challenging to hook up an understanding white guy,but you will get. I agree with what you said about a white girl's desires, because I had read it elsewhere many times;most white women who desire black men or babies have such an overwhelming hunger that the only way it ever gets quenched is by getting the baby,the ** or both, and it matters not what anybody says or thinks.You are a very good example of that.Enjoy your life and do a good job raising those 3 fine kids..well unless you get a hunger for more:)

I'm a 44mwf and starting next week (the day after MLK Day, ironically), I'll be getting a new boss at work, a 24yo black man married to a black woman who is 32. We all met with him the week between Christmas and New Years, and then again last week, and he told us about himself and his family in addition to changes in our operation. He's a super hunk and apparently I could not hide how attracted I am to him, even from the first time. Before he left the building that day, he came by my office and told me he was really looking forward to being around me, mentioning that he has a "weakness" for mature women (like his wife), and I just smiled a hungry smile and told him I felt the same. He came by again before he left last week, and said again he was looking forward to being around me in particular. I smiled again and walked around him and closed my office door behind him, and I asked him what he would think if I said I don't just want him around me, I want him IN me. He grabbed me and kissed me deep and we made out like ** teenagers. I humped him with my hip while he kissed me, and I think I could have made him ** in his pants but somebody knocked at the door, and so we had to stop. I think that him and me are going to be really great great lovers. Probably no babies, but lots of love. I just think 44 is too old to be getting knocked up even by an amazing and young black man with a huge black ** (judging by what I was rubbing up against).

Sounds fabulous! You have a good thing coming. I simply cannot wait for the updates. I really dont think at 44 you past being knocked up,you may be just at the ripe age. Why do you think he particulary hungers for you?

That's really kind of you to suggest that he has a thing for me in particular, but I don't think that's true. I think he probably just has a thing (hopefully a really NASTY thing) for cougars and jaguars, since he married a woman older than him. He probably ** a lot of older women (God knows, he can have whoever he wants!!!!). And to be realistic, he may have come by my office just to be polite, and not intending to try to start a fire: I basically threw myself at him and started begging and **, and he may have just thought he'd give me a roll, scratch my filthy itch, do me a **-favor. I don't know for sure that this is going to "become" anything. Although the way he was kissing me -- a stranger -- in my office that second visit really does make me think he's ready for an affair and maybe even an LTR. I hunger for him, and have already started fantasizing about him, because he's young and super hot and hunky and HUNG (OMMFG!). When it comes to my age, I'm certain I could still get pregnant (I still take birth control, but mostly for cycle regulation), but I doubt it would be a good idea. Late-life pregnancies are a risk, and anyways, 2 of my 4 kids are older than this guy. Like you, he may have hit sights set on starting a family with a white woman outside his marriage, but even if so, he would probably prefer doing that with a younger woman. Thanks for making my day!!!!!!!!!!

I have always loved having a woman come on to me...its such a ** thing. You most likely have him hooked on you already. Is this the first time you kissed a black guy? I simply like the way you think and write:)

Thanks again for your lovely and flattering words: you are so nice.......and ** **! :) I've been with a few black men in my life, but none recently and none so young (Christ he's so young!!). And none that could kiss like this one (he can really make a girl melt with that tongue!!). And none so hung (I started falling in love with his meat when I humped him like a **!!). After writing to you about him, I've been salivating for him (from both sets of lips!!) all morning, and even had the urge to call him or text him, and I may just do that. I want him to know he's on my mind.......in a really nasty way!! I'd love to text him and tell him that he better be prepared to ** on his first day here. :) Actually, I'd rather call him and tell him to come get me right now and take me somewhere and ** me!!!!!!

I hope you are Not Black because you are pathetic .. Beggin for white **.. Infact i think this post is fake because people dont even talk like this.

Dont have ** with white people untill racism is over!!!! They dont deserve it !! unless they collectively end white supremacy.

I am Very Black,with no apologies or regrets, but I do not believe I am pathetic.This post has been real for a number of years now, and will continue to be. You may need to believe that people talk like this, and I am open to ** with any race of women. White supremacy(the belief that white people are superior to those of all other races, especially the black race, and should therefore dominate society) is been in existence for a very long time. Its not something I condone,tolerate or support. I would eradicate it today if I had such powers. With that said,there is no way I will let negativity keep me from having fun and pleasure or friendships with white people-more so white women. I do not like to deny myself ** from a worthy woman of any race. The very racists you refer to,during slavery times,slept with black women,regardless of the women's age or marital status,some siring kids. Do you think they denied themselves that black ** because it was black? I respect your stand,but I am sorry I don't share it with you.

I am not the OP and I don't mean to offend anyone (and I'm a white man, so perhaps I have no place here), but I have been reading these postings from almost the very beginning and have not commented before, and I wanted to offer some context. I think if the commenter above would spend some time reading a few of the posts and the responses, and just the general interaction and dialogue among the writers, several things would rise to attention. First, the original poster has not ever (not even once!) done anything like bragging, not about the number of his white conquests or his length or girth. Second, unlike 99% of the other threads here, virtually all of the posts are on topic and polite. Third, his sexual relations with white women have nearly always been initiated by the women themselves: even when they're married white women, he doesn't go into relationships to ruin their marriages (and in fact, has actually SAVED some white marriages, by providing an escape/release valve for a dissatisfied wife). And he realizes -- and informs his readers -- that even if he told these women "no", they would simply go elsewhere: why should he pass them up? The very last thing this man ever does is "beg". And finally, the OP is invariably respectful. Even when prodded, he doesn't respond in kind. His ultimate desire is eminently reasonable, and frankly, it's incredibly **. And I, for one, hope he finds a wonderful white woman to give him what he wants. And deserves.

Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you a million times! I was sort of shocked my the response of that gentleman. You really seem to completely understand my position and you articulated it well. I am not the bragging type,I have greatly appreciated every woman I have been with, and have learned lots from women in my life. There are many readers of this post who are like you-they read and never say anything, and I have no objections to that. I am delighted thyat you said such good things, and more so in my defense. I never thought of spending this much time and effort reading and posting to others here,I am so surprised to see what a simple confession has become. I find each and every reply here to be so intimately written,so personal,so soul searching that I am left humbled.Regardless of race,we are human, and as humans,we have many wants,desires, and needs that may be unmet.As individuals,we have to figure out how to meet our wants,needs, and desires.Other than meeting the needs of my family and kids,there is nothing else that gets me as happy,excited,or delighted as meeting the desires of a ** woman,regardless of her race or marital status. Thank you for standing up for me,may your new year be great.

I'm a white woman who has lived her whole life in a very white area. Black people are like unicorns around here--you wonder if they exist, other than on television.

When I hang out with my female friends, we occasionally talk about attraction, cute guys, and **. Without a doubt all of my white married friends are curious about what it would be like to ** a black guy. All of them.

One day, when our husbands were at work and the kids were in school, about three of my friends came over for coffee, and we spent the day watching interracial orgies and **. We laughed our ** off, but we all agreed it was smoking hot--like "I want some of that" hott.

Stop wondering ,watching interracial orgies,or sitting around talking and laughing, and venture out and get real life pleasure-a well deserved black guy. Make sure you choose wisely and do everything you can to make the experience fun,pleasurable,memorable and worthwhile.I am sure you have been a good wife over the years and you deserve some discreet, personal intimate pleasure.The mere fact that you posted here,talked about it with your married female friends,or watched interracial ** together shows that you have done quite a bit of research ,but need to go a small step further and perform the ultimate act-seduce a black guy of your choice and make crazy love to him over and over again to your lovely **'s content. Your town may be all white,but you and I know that you have a need and will find a way(internet?) to get it without your hubby ever finding out. In this situation,you are going to be the one shamelessly seeking the guys you want- some guys love that. I know you will quench your thirst and share the fun intimate details with us. Whatever you do,don't get hooked and create marriage troubles for yourself. You have it in you to accomplish this task,best of fun and pleasure this new year.

Why didn't you experiment and explore your fantasises more, when you was single? You probably had many opportunities to do so

Me and my husband got married last June 2015. He didn't know I had been dating an older married black guy on the side for the 2 yrs before our wedding. But even so I gave Dameon up coz I thought it was right to do. I was a good girl for over six months but then I couldn't stand it no more and I had to get with Dameon. I really just HAD to do that. It wasn't a choice. I thought I could just date him like ever so often and not like we was before. But that didn't work. Once it started up I had to have more and more. I been on the pill all along but then I come here and read all this from married white women with black babies and it all makes me feel so tingling and alive! Amazing! I'm going on a date with Dameon this afternoon and tonight and I'm going to have a talk with him about this and maybe even show him your website. I think it would be so beautiful and so sweet to carry a little black baby in me for 9 months and then to surprise my husband and our families.

Its been 10 hours already.I know you talked to him by now.I so want to hear what he had to say and what you two decided. I don't quite understand how some guys get so lucky! Anyway,this is going to be a great story...I can feel it already. We all waiting for the details:)

I didn't write sooner because I didn't know what to tell you: it was . . . weird. And it wasn't what I expected. I thought he'd either love the idea or hate and reject it, and he didn't really do either. The first time I mentioned it on Friday afternoon, I was on top of him looking right at him and he was inside me, like I'd planned. And as soon as I said I wanted his black baby in me so so so bad and we needed it "for US", he came right away, I mean like instantaneously, he just blew a huge load up and in, the biggest he ever gave me and ALL his loads are gigantic (his precum is more than any ** than my husband ever gave). The second time, he was behind me giving me the dog and I didn't really talk about it like I had the first time, I just told him, "take that ** ** and put a ** baby in that nasty white **", and again, he gave me a huge load. The next two times, I did it again while we were ** and all I said was "knock me up" and both times I got the same reaction and the same size of a load. Before I had to leave to go home to my husband, I told him I wanted to talk about us starting a family together but not with our spouses, and he said he couldn't talk about it right now and he was super super evasive and upset, so I just dropped the whole thing. I don't know what to make of the whole thing: when I mentioned him impregnating me, he hosed my insides like he loved the idea and moaned like he loved the feeling. But then after he'd filled me up he would just shut down and not even talk about babies. I guess I'll figure it out eventually, but right now it's a mixed message and it's real confusing to me.

This guy sure loves the feel of you...4 consistently huge loads in you in a couple of hours? What a lucky lady:). You did a great job in my opinion.You wasted no time and you told him you want a baby and how you want things to be. Do not be discouraged for not getting a spontaneous answer;he has a right to think about this novel idea. It may take him a while to think it through and eventually let you know what he thinks. It may not help to ask him about it this week or next.I don't know him but I am thinking he will definitely let you know. Given that you not on birth control you could hastily consider tricking him by "accidentally" getting pregnant;but that will be a bad idea,as he may get resentful of you, and choose to have nothing to do with you or the baby. It will be awesome,I think,if the whole decision was joint and mutual. The repercussion of what you plan to do are immense, and am sure you know them all. I am so happy to read your update.I am sure other readers are too, and I am hoping this goes as your lovely heart desires. Merry Christmas, and may the New Year be your Happiest. Keep us posted.

I did like you said and didn't even raise the issue the last three times he came to me. (And by the way . . . I normally only see him once every other week, and now I've seen him four times in barely over one week, ALL by his decision, and ALL since I first used the phrase "knock me up".) But something I noticed these last three times he's ** me is that now, when we're in bed together, he never pulls out. Even after he ** in me, he stays in there and waits for me to squeeze him hard again, without even asking me to do it. I've never had this much ** in me in my entire life. And maybe it's my imagination, but he seems to keep producing bigger and bigger and bigger loads. I don't know how he could do that, but that's the way it feels in me. (He's always said, though, that he loves sending me home to my husband with his seed in me: it makes him feel like more of a man.) I won't trick him into impregnating me (still taking my pills like a good little girl does): no, I want him to BEG me for a mixed baby. I want him to WANT that little **. I want him to ache for our baby like I do, and then I want him to ORDER me off my pills. I want the conception to be powerful and huge and loud and messy and memorable. (Part of me even wants it in public.) ** . . . just the thought of it makes me cream . . . **!!!!

My wife has always had a thing for black men even all the way back to high school but she never got with one and she never cheated on me but I know lot of women feel the same and lot of them do want there babys so you will probably find one for you who would love you and keep getting knocked up

What turns your wife on about black guys?

If your wife admits to you that she "has a thing for black men" then stop lying to yourself: she HAS been with MORE than one and she HAS cheated on you and she IS cheating on you. And it's all with blacks. She tells you she's not cheating or lets you convince yourself she's not cheating; either way shes manipulating you. And shes totally going black and loving it. She knows you love her and she uses that to keep you in line and to keep you from dumping her. She's ** several black men now and she probably has plans to have black babies. As you can see from this excellent page most women who ache for and crave black ** also ache for and crave black BABIES. That longing is in the nature of virtually all white women and being married doesn't dampen the desire for the ** OR for the babies: if anything it INCREASES it. My guess is that you wife has a black bull and multiple black lovers. Ask her if she knows what a breeding party is. If she blushes she's been a participant in them. If she smiles.........she's already pregnant.

^This guy is right. Your wife is running your marriage -- and controlling you completely -- and she has you eager to believe her lies. She's ** black men and laughing behind your back that you think she's never cheated! :) Wake up!!

All of these commenters are totally correct, and especially so about this behavior and the desire underlying it being a part of the nature of white women. I'm a white woman married to a white man and I have had two mixed race children during my marriage to my white husband, by two different black fathers. And I have a white female friend also married to a white man and she has had a mixed baby, too. So, yes, yes, yes, yes, YES. This is a part of our psychological makeup and a part of our sexual makeup. There's no denying it. And there's also no stopping it. A white woman, married or not, is always going to be hungry for the black men in her life. And to the white husband who first wrote about his wife having not been with a black man and having never cheated, I offer this observation. Many, if not most, of the black men your wife is having torrid ** with are men you already know. So, look around you and start to worry: if you know a good-looking black stud, the great likelihood is that he is already plowing your wife and making her happy, because you aren't making her happy. And even if he isn't doing that, he soon will be. So either way, you should worry. We all want what your wife is getting.

Wait,wait,did I just read that you have not one, but two bi-racial kids and you married to a white man? Now,you know you gotta tell us how this whole double episode went down. I am dying to hear how it all started and where it is now. Many others want to know these from you am sure. I don't even want to ask you the usual questions,just share your story. And your girlfriend is in on this too? I must live in the wrong city!In your response,you sure spoke the truth as most of us know it:)

You are so right. I bet if hubby dug a little deeper,he will arrive at the same conclusion you did. I am very sure that wife has done something with one or many black guys. She just can't come out and openly admit it.

Its too good. i cant quit. god help me i cant quit.

Please explain your statement. Sounds very interesting.

I had wrote you oncebefore last winter about my situation at homeand how i was trying to hook up with a magnificent black creature i know and so i wrote earlier this week to tell you about what we done and i wrote a lot but when i hit "post" the site dumped everything i wrote and this was all that was left. everything was gone. gone!!! i thought the site had got better but then this ** happened and now its worse. at least for me. i'm so sorry i lost everything i wanted you to know!!!!!

I am sorry to hear about your disappointment. It's happened to me many times, and it's frustrating. Others have stated the same thing. I hope you find the motivation and energy to compose your experience anew and share it with us. Many of us are waiting:)

For the last year approximately I accused my wife of having an affair with her black boss. She always laughed and denied it. Then a few weeks ago she finally admitted that they were involved and had been involved ever since she went to work for him over three years ago and she said they would stay involved no matter what I thought or wanted. He won't leave his wife so she told me she won't leave me either and that I just have to "get over it" and that is what she always says and she laughs at me having a hard time "getting over it". Then last week I read all of these posts here (it took a lot of time but it was really helpful) and I just asked her if she was planning to have a black baby for her boss. I did that because her situation is a lot like so many of the women here. She laughed and denied it. So that tells me its probably true and its probably going to happen. They keep their relationship on the DL (so far) but theres no way she can keep a black baby with a white husband on the DL. I don't know how I could live with that. And I don't know how you could do that with a white woman who is married to or living with a white man and not care about the effects on him or the other children they might have together. I just don't even get it.

Well,it sounds like you are between a rock and a hard place.The good thing is she is not leaving you,which makes it sound like she is dedicated to your marriage,though not to you specifically. Makes me wonder if she could leave you if the lover left his wife. As you have read,many women love these illicit,discreet love relationships,especially with black men. I have had my fair share of women, and most of the white ones,married or not,have told me that they wanted or chose to have ** with me because I was a nice looking black man.They wanted something different,new.....For many years,I used to think it was awful to bed a married woman.Then I tried it,aggressive married women seduced me,and I ended up loving the whole affair thing with married women. I dedicated myself to seducing and dating married women. As you have read here from many men and women,there is quite a thrill and exhilaration for doing a married woman or man. The way you know or view your wife is not the way those of us who seduce and sleep with married women do; some people/men see a married woman as sacred,we see her as a beautiful ripe fruit that is worth the effort in seduction time, much loving,even giving her a baby. I don't want to destroy your marriage,I just want to enjoy your wife.I may not purposely try to knock her up,but it may happen and you may have to raise that kid. Its not like you may not be a good husband,she just wants adventure or to satisfy her curiosity about the many myths she has read or heard about black men and inter-racial relationships. It could also be that she wants a black man and many bi-racial babies and there is nothing any man on earth can do to stop her. Three years is a long time,she may really be in-love with the man and you may have to wait these relationship out. Not to be mean,but honestly if I were her boss,I would have knocked her up for you already.

He^ (the OP) is totally, totally right. You (the commenter) look at your marriage as a castle sitting inside a fortified wall, and no one can come inside to despoil your wife or take her from you: the wall is intended to prevent that. But we aren't coming inside to get your wife: she's coming out looking for **. Why should we honor your marriage when your wife isn't honoring it? She wants something other than you and we are giving that to her. You can't blame us for that. In fact, if you're looking for someone to blame, you should blame yourself. If she was happy and satisfied and cared for in the castle, she'd have no reason to come looking for us. I know it sounds mean, but we are making her happy and we are giving her what she wants. If a married white woman comes on to me because she's hungry for something she's not getting in the castle, I'm not going to decline her or disappoint her or send her home unsatisfied: that's what you're doing in your marriage and it isn't working. (And by the way: I can tell you from personal experience that even if I tell her "no", she'll find another black man to **, without doubt). I can assure you that her black boss is doing things to her body you have never done and that you probably have never heard of, and he's pleasing her in ways you cannot imagine, and in ways that would likely disgust you). Her laughter at your expense? It tells you all you need to know about where you rank. Yes, it seems certain to me that she is going to start having his babies (if she's not already pregnant by him). And it's absolutely certain you'll be the one raising them. Get ready. If he's anything like me, he doesn't care AT ALL about the effects their relationship -- or their children -- will have on you. Why would he? Why should he? Things are about to get much worse for you.....from your perspective only.

Me and my freidn pickedup this white lady at a conveniece store about 2 yrs ago.....or more like she picked us up...........she come home with us and hooked up and she kept coming back for more and more......got her pregnant and she had the baby last december......and she still coming back for more.......so we probly will knock her ** up again.............her husband hate us but he cant stop us from htting that and he cant stop her from comig to get it from both us.....we dont know wich one is the baby dady but dont dont hardly care.......... as long as she keepon giving the goddam goodmarride white ** ....we keep on taking it...... keep on hitting it......keep on knocking it up...... he dont mean nothing to us.....

She is surely a lucky girl,getting her pleasure on and kids as a reward. You guys are lucky too,am sort of jealous, but happy for you. You three are hooked on each other and there will be a new bi-racial baby born yearly. And if you say no to her,she will stop at the same gas station and pick up another guy (s) who looks just like you. Out of curiosity,what is the relationship of you two guys?

I felt sort of bad after posting my reply, but after reading yours,I feel so much better now. In my opinion and from personal experience,all you said is true,true,true. Thanks for saying that without being mean or disrespectful.OP

I have 3 sisters that are all older then me. the 2nd oldest is married to a older black man. we are in love. we have been making love for as long as they have been married. we make love where i live at my parrents house when they are not home or in a motel if we cant get rid of them. he wants me to start having his babies for him when i get older but i want them now and i dont want to have to wait for that its too long from now. eventally i think he will break up with her from their marraiage and we will get married ourselves but i am not sure of that. i am only sure we are in love and we both want his black babies inside of me and then to raise them. i would love his blakc babies as much as i love his black **. i think you should find someone younger who will love you for ever and ever and ever. to love you and your black ** and your black babies. if you get somebody older then you will only be able to have one or a few babies but if shes like me you will just keep having more and more.

You said he wants kids with you when you get older;how old are you now? Are you prepared for the messy explosion that will result from your sister and family when they find out what you and brother-in-law are up to? I am assuming you are pretty young,why not find some other unattached black guy in the neighborhood and have him give you all the kids you want? Well,been looking around but just haven't found a willing younger white woman yet,but am always hopeful:)

You're scared you will never get a white woman pregnant. But I read these posts you've written, and I'm scared you WILL get a white woman pregnant . . . and that it'll be my wife. You're the kind of man she loves and it worries me that she'll find this website, and find your writing, and then throw herself at you. As remote a possibility as that may seem, that actually does worry me, believe it or not.

I think that you should seduce your wife for me and let me knock her up and then you can raise the child for the 3 of us. I think you can do it,she can do it, and we can all do it. I am counting on you! By the way tell me about your wife.