Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

Your looking for a cheap white trailertrash ** ** and the place you go to find cheap white trailer trash ** whores is a bar. low class ** tonk bars are all over the place and there all full up with cheap white trailertrash ** whores. they dont make very good mothers but they sure know how to ** and how to forget to use birth control. they dont smell very good either but they will ** your brains out and dont care about pregnancies. get a **.

NO! I am not looking for a cheap or expensive trailer trash ** as you put it. I want a decent woman who would make a responsible caring mother. If what you describe is what I desired,I would have accomplished my goal by now. I am somewhat selective and responsible.It matters not to me if the woman best suited is single or pregnant...I am equal opportunity impregnator in this case!

Ok fine. but you should at least be practicing with the bar whores......:)

I did that for many years and it was fun and I got quite many.For many years now I have tried to be good. I haven't even had ** with anybody other than my gf(of almost 3 years) for the last 19 months. To me,that is a major accomplished-I know millions of people don't cheat in a lifetime.Instead of going to a bar,I go to my sons mom's place,pick the kids up and spend time with them;its more enjoyable. Sometimes I can't believe its me. I appreciate you:)

I'm a white female 27 and I'm on my third marriage. I have two white kids (and two more that I gave to adopt when I was in teenager **) but no mixed babies, at least not yet. The one constant throughout my crazy life has been my relationship with L.D., a black man who is in his middle 40s now, who is been there thru all my marriages and is always given me what I need. My husbands have all been older too, and none of them have ever completely done it for me, so I've always stayed keeping L.D. in my life, ever since high school. He is my best lover (and the biggest, thickest and longest too) and I think we'll always have each other or at least that's what I hope. I decided to write after reading some other posts here that were wrote lately about white girls who go into their white marriages with black lovers still on the side. I admit that I have did that and I have lied to all my husbands and boyfriends about L.D. and some other black men I've been with, but I don't feel bad about it and I doubt those other white girls who they were complaining about ever felt bad about their black lovers either. The way I see it is that a lot of white husbands almost MAKE their white wives cheat on them and lie to them because they aren't taking care of those wives or aren't doing a very good job of it (me and one of my best girlfriends call it "small ** syndrome"). I lie all the time but I have those special reasons, and its not like any of my husbands have ever not got taken care of in the bedroom: they TOTALLY were taken care of. It was only me who wasn't taken care of, so I have to find some of the love somewhere else. Those other guys who wrote shouldn't be so judgemental.

There is quite a long spread in the age difference between you and L.D. But he seems to be the closest man in your life, and a constant pleasure in your body and life. Are you planning to marry him or have kids with him, given the totality of this situation?How have you not managed to have kids together thus far? I assume you have no connection with the kids you gave up for adoption? It took me a while to say something to you because your reply shows the complexities of love and life, and is thought provoking. There is a solid 20 year age difference between my sons mother and I. She has tried to be on the run from me from the week she found out she was pregnant with our first son to this day.We have had protracted custody battles,but she somehow finds a way to come back to me when her relationships fail. She has been happily married to someone(I don't know him,never seen him) for about a year now (they don't reside together) but we seem to be getting along well and relate better. She has a new baby boy, whom I adore,with him. Although she doesn't visit my apt,she frequently invites me to hers because of the kids(we have joint custody,she is primary),food, or whatever.The point is,because I am very involved with our sons,we will always be in each other's lives for a long time. I have no clue what to do with her- to seduce her back or not.If I get back with her(I actually adore her) what about her hubby,or my girlfriend? We have't had ** since late 2013,but I know we will again in the course of our lives- the complexities of life.Thanks and good luck.

About a week before I married my wife in June 2014 she told me her girlfriends were throwing her a bachelorette and that they would have strippers there, and she wanted to know if that was okay with me. I said it was, since it was a final fling and all that, and she was really happy about that. I told her it was okay as long as there was no **. On our honeymoon, she "confessed" that she had ** with a black stripper but it was a one-time thing. I said okay but not to see him again. Two months later, she slipped up with some text messages and I discovered she was "dating" the same black stripper. I confronted her and she said he was introducing her to ** and she loved it and wanted me to join the group. I went once but while I was there her date/master (she didn't tell me she had submitted to him and that the was now her "owner") told me in no uncertain terms I had to leave, I wasn't welcome. She later told me she intended to stay in the group but it wouldn't affect me or our marriage. I never knew when she went with them or with the master, but I knew she was going and ** a lot. A few months later, we started talking about starting a family, and she was excited about that, like I was too. One night her master came by our house unannounced and said we had to have a sit-down talk. He explained to me that she and I could not start a family until she had a black baby for him and one for another black man in the group. I asked her if that was what she wanted, and she said "more than anything". That's been four months ago and I know she's off her birth control. I guess this is just another way for a black man to accomplish what your trying to accomplish. I hate the situation but I love my wife, and I guess that someday she'll have a child for me, too, her husband.

Some guys sure have guts...well so do some women/wives. Not that this is inconceivable, but these black guys are demanding that your new wife have kids for them first? And on average,that is 3 years for each kid, so 6 years before she lets you knock her up? Even then,there is no guarantee she would want a non-biracial kid by you then.Maybe I could accomplish this if I just got aggressive and ignored the needs and desires of the legitimate husbands/lovers. In any case though,you must make your wife happy and it seems like happiness for her is having bi-racial kids with different black men. From reading online and other sources, and as I have posted before,many white women, married to white men, are cuckolding their husbands and having kids with other men(mostly of different races) and having the husbands love and raise those kids. You just joined that group,love it. Thanks for sharing,please keep us posted. Your situation is so invigorating,and if these guys can do it,I can too:)

I hate to be the bearer of more bad news but it seems obvious to me that this poor guy's wife was probably doing black guys and getting herself pounded in the ** clubs and parties loooooong before the week of their wedding. In fact, my bet is she was already doing all that by the time he met her, and she just kept the secret to herself and couldn't bring herself to tell her boyfriend, then fiancé, then husband until she had already hooked him and pulled him into her nasty little ** boat. She seems like a pretty filthy piece of **, and that didn't happen overnight. And it's also not going to just go away overnight after she's banged out a couple of black kids for her "owners". I feel sorry for the guy, but he's got to decide if he can face this kind and degree of lying for the rest of his life, as well as the prospect of not getting any of his own wife's **......except on "special" occasions. She's definitely going to keep ** these and other men, and she's probably going to keep having their babies, and eventually he's going to be excluded from the bed and the bedroom altogether, and he'll just be paying the freight for all these illegitimate kids and (probably) for some of their fathers. To each his own, I guess, but he needs to look honestly at what's in front of him. And it ain't good.

I have to agree with this writer the first thought i had when i read about the hotwife was that it was too convenient that she admitted only to the week before marriage it had to of been happening for probably years before that. she was too comfortable with the lifestyle for it to of been new for her.

Same for me. I would like to hear the husband say whether or not there had been other incidents that made him wonder about what she was getting up to.

Totally agree with your observation. She just knew how to organize him before she married him. Now she is in control and he has to simply go along with her life plan,

^This^ is the best comment about this guy's situation, and the use of the word "organize" is exactly correct: the ** lined him up just exactly like she wanted him. And then, to use this same commenter's other extraordinary phrase, she made him commit to "her life plan". That really hits the nail's head. This was her plan probably since she was in high school, and she finally found her white man to provide the cover she needed (for parents, family, church, work, society) to do all the things she wanted. Yeah, "her life plan" is just the way to describe what was at work here. Poor sap is lost now, and he'll never get away from this **.

I see you go to 900 comments today and just wanted to say congrats. that is a huge deal and something to be proud about. so be proud!

Hahahaha! Thanks. But where did you see that? With the new site,I am unable to see the counter showing number of views,I only see the one showing comments(142 today). I liked the old site much better than the new one-even the font is weird now. In any case,I appreciate you:)

When you open the "all confessions" category and sort by "most comments" your blog is like close to the top of the page and it shows the total number of comments posted which is now over nine hundred. yesterday it was exactly nine hundred so you've gotten even more already and are still growing fast! and even better yours are all real not like the chinese thread or the miley cyrus haters. nice going!!! be proud!!!

Our Panther brother Eldridge Cleaver said back in the sixties that the ** of white female prey was an insurrectionary act. Far as I'm concerned, it was true then and it's true today and it's been true every day in between. Act like it, my brother.

I believe that Eldridge Cleaver wrote that in Soul On Ice, while serving time in Folsom or some other prison. I remember that before writing those essays,he did reject **,be it of black or white women. Indeed,he had ** many women in various places before serving time. I have absolutely no interest in ** any woman,man or anything, regardless of, need, want, desire, or color. I abhor violence of any kind. Maybe I would have achieved my desire by now, if I had gone the violence route.But that is not me, and I don't think anybody should venture into such-male or female. Diplomatic means must be the MO. I love freedom of choice and movement.There is no way I would enjoy reading or writing this from behind bars. I want a genuine quenchable **,not a criminal insurrectionary.I cannot have a baby in prison. Convicted rapists tend to lead a lonesome miserable lives due to the laws in place.I am sorry,that won't work for me.

Couple of things. First, Cleaver walking back his ** comments was, I have always believed, just a way of advancing his place in his new religion (LDS) and his new politics (GOP), not a real rejection of the stated premise. And second, I wasn't lobbying for you to go out and rack up a bunch of felony charges by actually ** some white women, but just encouraging a sense of sexual entitlement to these heated interracial sexual relationships, and hyper-aggressive approach to all these white women we see in the world WHO WE KNOW are getting laid out by the brothers and still trying to pretend they are "above" marital infidelity and interracial **. I think you're trying to be a gentlemen, when these married white she-** are looking for a scary black boogey-man to knock them out and knock them up: they like the feeling of being overwhelmed (so they can say to the inferior white husbands, and to themselves: "Really, honey, I couldn't help it: that bad man made me take that **") and of having the sexual relationship plausibly "forced" on them. No, I do not want you in prison: I want to see you knocking these prissy ** up, and teaching them a lesson in crude, hot, filthy, interracial **, and showing them and their white husbands how to raise mixed race children. I say, "gogitchasum!"

Lol,you made me laugh by your explanation- "Really, honey, I couldn't help it: that bad man made me take that **"). I had a married white woman way back when who wanted so badly to leave me.But she explained to me that whenever she could see me, hear my voice,or think of me,she would get ** and terribly wet, and then she would just want me instantly. A few times she would get out of her marital bed at night,,leave hubby sleeping, and come to fvck me.We finally broke up but I just remembered that she told me she used to tell her hubby she couldn't help fvcking me. Her mind and heart was willing,but her pvssy was not she used to say.Thanks for not wanting me in prison:)

You and your white ex-girlfriend made the point better than I did. What you were giving her was so good that she didn't want to be without it, even when her husband found out, and yet she comforted herself with the idea that she couldn't stay off the **, that it was a physical imperative and she couldn't control it (like the sunrise). That is exactly what these ** do! And it's why you'll find one even if you still show up as the nice guy, but you'll find more if you play the role they want you to play: the militant radical angry **-crazed black animal with the perpetual hard-on, bent on insemination and impregnation, and on the destruction of white marriages . . . . . who doesn't give them a choice. These she-devils want to be overwhelmed, so overwhelm them. They are begging for the **, and they want to be ruined by it.

Hi...I'm a 22 y.o. black guy and in the last 5 yrs I have fathered children with four different married white women all older than me. Presently the youngest of these women is 36 and the oldest is now 48 and I am still involved with all of the women but not very much at all with any of the children because that's the way the mothers wanted it. They treat me like a god and I have every expectation it will remain that way, even though more mature women usually are only looking for a quick hookup: these women are exceptional only in the fact that they have maintained the relationship with me. But white women wanting to venture onto the black said everywhere. Literally everywhere. And they are all in love with black men and want their babies. So I understand your desire completely. Their desires are also understandable and it makes them easy to manipulate. I could have impregnated younger women than these but my tastes run to the more mature, when it comes to white women. Black women? I like them younger. In your case, I think you will pretty much have your pick, but it's my impression that girls between 18 and 26 will generally be more open to an LTR while the ones above that age will more likely want the breeding and then go back to their pitiful white husbands (mine have remained with their husbands, but have continued the relationships with me). Just my general impression. But I can tell you for sure that they are out there. And they are ready. And you will find them. Or they will come looking for you.

First things first,thanks for your contribution. Secondly,I don't even like you right about now... because I am jealous( am starting to think I will never achieve this), envious(how in the world did you get 4 and I have spent few years just trying to see if I can get my first?). I am just kidding,but am proud of your great works and the fact that you have a decent enough character that your kids mothers have kept contact with you. It seems you know how to select the right ones. You also seem to have a good grasp of of your target mother/partners, and I believe you are generally right. I don't agree with the "manipulation" part but I know that I can find ** almost everywhere;I just can't seem to find a bi-racial baby anywhere. Keep up the good work,I remember when I was 22,lol. Yes I want to find,or be found.I appreciate you, and please create time to read and contribute here. I believe many readers find this post very enlightening. You are the luckiest man I know,be good to those women and your kids-YOU ARE THE FATHER:)

Why so you can knock her up and leave? I am bi-racial. Keep your pack of mental problems away from some poor white woman. Being bi-racial is like always feeling dirty. Only us lucky ones are light enough to not hate leaving the house every day.

I am glad you are a prisoner of either your skin or your house. But to enlighten you,I am responsible enough to make sure that if I have a baby with someone,that baby will be well taken care of.I know that because I have done it-four times so far, I will spare you the details,but know that your assumptions about me were totally wrong. I have been lucky to date women of many colors,races,tribes,etc.I have been dating a fine white woman for the last 2.5 years, and she has never noted that I have a mental issue.I know for sure that I have no mental problems, and I thank God for that.You should also know that I make a living working at an acute psychiatric facility and mental problems, impairment or sickness is a serious issue, and it seems that you are probably not well qualified to diagnose. But no hard feelings,I have no clue what you have been through in your life.Best wishes.

I am glad you are ^ a prisoner of either your skin or your house =I am glad you are NOT a prisoner of either your skin or your house.Sorry for the omission of "NOT".

I'm the white mother of two white children and two mixed race children, all by different fathers. Yeah, I've heard all the words mean people use to describe me, but I don't care about that (in fact, I'm almost proud of the names they call me) and I'm not writing about me. I'm writing about this supposed bi-racial person who accused the OP of some pretty despicable behavior, because I'm offended by it. In my experience the black fathers of my mixed kids are not only BY FAR the better lovers, they are BY FAR the better men, in general, and BY FAR the better fathers, in particular. Not only have both of them remained involved with me sexually since the times they impregnated me (and I thank GOD for both those facts), but they have stayed involved with the children and have promised and provided support. The white fathers weren't just bad lovers, they were also bad fathers (and really bad husbands), and only one is still remotely involved with his child (and even that is very remote). My mixed children aren't ashamed of their mixed parents, or of their skin color or their status. The example I use all the time is Key & Peele, both the products of white mothers and black fathers, and like them, my kids have suffered no more indignity than their pure black counterparts or any other race or combination of races. In fact, they are proud of themselves and their parents, and I think that is more the norm today than the exception in mixed families like ours. No, we aren't a family in the traditional sense, but we are very much a family in the 21st Century sense. And it is an insult to me as their mother, and to them as mixed race, to read this nonsense from someone who claims to be mixed. The OP wants what his heart (and his body) wants, and he shouldn't be criticized for that. I hope he finds the white woman (or women) who will yield her womb to him in love, and in utterly incredible heat. I do understand the urge to breed and to be bred, and it is beautiful and powerful.

I agree with ^this^ nice lady. I also have a bi-racial child, 11 years younger than the youngest of my three white ones, and he was a total surprise to my white husband. Although I credit my husband with having stayed with me even though I had obviously been cheating, I give more credit to the child's black father, who has stayed involved with me and the child even though I haven't left my husband. My black bull is a fabulous ** partner, the best of my life, and he's a good father, and very responsible in both areas. My child is proud of his heritage and not even slightly afraid to go out of the house.

I appreciate you in ways you would not believe. Thank you so much for coming to my defense and that of mixed kids and families. I was shocked that someone of a mixed race would attack me like that. Your testimony is fabulous and is a true testament of what a large number of families are like around the world. I am do happy you have kids with black men you are happy with and have no shame lifting them up high. You have no shame but pride in you and that is a wonderful thing. My sons mom used to strongly dislike the idea of a woman having kids with different men, and would talk really bad about such women only 7 years ago(she is now 30). Then our relationship failed and she found out that she would have no choice but have a baby with someone else. Throughout her pregnancy,her tune changed,she now sees absolutely nothing wrong with having babies with more than one man.Its amazing how the world events shape our perceptions and instills reality in us.

In my life i have ** a couple of married white women whilst they were preg but the babes werent mine....they belonged to the husbands, but they never knew that i had stuck my goods where the babes were.......

Tried to get my pregnant ex gf,now married to someone else,interested in having ** with me this year while pregnant with no luck. She does not live with her hubby yet, but I spend time with her and her new baby quite a bit-I just got home from her apt. NO ** YET.

Totally amazed by how many married white women are into this type of relationship, and I can't find any for myself. I completely sympathize with the O.P.

Thanks bro.Its been very difficult for me to find a willing lady,married or not. I pray you find one soon.

I hope the same for you, but I am pretty sure you'll find one since you have so much more experience at it than I do. I mean, I have dated a lot, and even several white females, but not nearly as many as you, and only MAYBE four total that were married at the time we dated. Naturally I would be happy to find a single one wanting a mixed baby but there's just something about making love with a married white lady that is so hot. Anyway, enjoy the hunt ........ and the capture. :)

My current wife has been dating a black man for almost 2 years. She and I have a child together but now she's talking to him about having children with him while still married to me. Yes....."children", plural. I guess she's done with me but she says she won't leave me. Is this the new idea of "family" now? I hope not. But I'm afraid it will become that for me.

Yes and no..family has really evolved and most likely,its where you are at. We have millions of blended families now and nothing is what it expected to be-it is what it is. She has the womb,so whatever she decided likely goes and you would just have to go along with it. Is she knocked up yet?I believe that if every family in the world did DNA,some family members would found to be fathered by someone other than hubby or the man who helped raise them,or is doing so now,

somewhat of a similar situation for me but sort of reversed. i am a married black lady, 41 with three black children for my black husband, ages ranged from 19 to 13. then a little over a year ago i gave birth to a fourth child. everyone assumes its my husbands child (including him) even though she has a bit lighter complexion than the rest of us. the fact is that her biological father was the white husband of a white woman who had just came to work where i have worked for almost 20 yrs. the actual father knows hes the actual father but will not disclose the fact unless and until i am ready for that. he is so much younger than i am but we have a special relationship in both the physical and emotional senses. this is the sexiest time of my life and is the sexiest thing i ever have done so i very much encourage you to stay after your dream and keep looking because what you might do with a married white lady is MUCH sexier than what i have done so i know you will love it even more. please keep on keeping on and enjoy your love and enjoy your **. i wish you great luck.

Thanks much for your contribution and well wishes.You sure have guts by letting the white guy knock you up while you are married to your hubby -it will be hard to hide the fact that the baby is different from your other kids. I am glad your hubby has not said anything yet.I think its so daring,** and **.How did you and the younger man,get started? Did you plan to get pregnant or did it just happen?Does anybody else say the baby looks different?What do you think hubby would say and do when he finds out the truth?In your mind,how have you planned to explain the situation away when and if it comes up someday?It will be awesome if he stays with you despite your affair.If you are still dipping your fingers in the cookie,you gonna get knocked up again very soon.Just enjoy,we only live once.

My other man was married to a woman who came to work at the place i work and she was made my boss which ** me off. shes younger by more than 15 years but she has the big degrees so they made her boss. she brought her husband to an office party and him and me started flirting and wound up in an empty room at the office. what he did to me that night was the most amazing thing ever and i will tell you about it if you would like to hear it, even my girlfriends who know about us thought it was amazing of him. that will also tell about how "planned" the pregnancy was (getting this man to knock me up kind of became unavoidable to me). his wife still works as my boss so it makes me happy to have this baby from her husband. as for the babys looks yes.....some people have noticed but she looks enough like me that its easy to explain away. if his wife ever saw the baby with her husband next to her she would know right away what happened. my husband has no idea about why the baby is so light and even if somebody said something to him direct i dont think he would consider it possible that he isnt the baby daddy. i dont know what he will do if and when i tell him i have another man and that i am leaving to go raise the other kids with him which i probably will do when the youngest of my kids i have with my husband goes off to college or work. and you are so so so so so so so so right about that cookie jar LOL ...... lot of really hot and filthy activity going on there and i expect to be knocked up again by this same wonderful white man sometime this fall and deliver him another beautiful child next year. and eventually i hope to end his marriage to this devil ** i work for. anyway you wont have those complications and your situation will be perfect. thank you.......

Just a jaw dropping story! I am lost in this revamped site.I am glad you found the story to post an update. You sure are on a mission and it sounds so ** for words. Women really know how to revenge and it seems like you are savoring your revenge on the boss. I need a woman who thinks just like you in order to make my desired goal happen,lol. How many years do you have till your youngest baby with hubby goes to college? I am dying to know what the boss's hubby did to you in that room that has ultimately made you wanna drop a bi-racial baby for him yearly!

Your right..... i realy do hate this woman but to be real i would be having the exact same affair with her husband even if she wasnt my boss. but I do love ruining the bitchs marriage a little every day! so deliciously WRONG! myyoungest child with hubby is 13 and will be in college 5 yrs from now. thats when the explosion will occur and it will be huge!!! okay, this may not seem like a big deal but i think you are a very sensitive man and so i think youll find it amazing. the night we met at the party he and i were flirting reeeeeally hard and we both knew immediately it would start an affair. like i said we went into a empty room and he told me as we were walking in the door that he wasnt going to penetrate me that night because he wanted our 1st time to be all about me so he was going to do the work and i was just to lay back and love it. he said he wanted many more nights with me and this would show he wasnt just interested in a one-time. but then something even more incredible happened. he went to work eating my ** (REALLY good!) and thenhe drove 2 fingers inside all the way and started scratching my cervix. it hurt at first but then he found this spot and i started ** like crazy. i came 3 times in less than 5 minutes, which i have never done before. after the third one i made him stop and when he did he told me he knew i was ovulating. no man had ever done that before not even in guessing. i am one of those women who always track ovulation so i knew he was right (this is what my girlfriends are so amazed at: a man who knows ovulation). he told me before we left the room that he was going to knock me up the next time i was ovulating and thats what he did. his ** isnt as big as my husbands but its bent right to do 2 things: make me ** and knock my ** up. i love him and he loves me. and we both love cheating. more later if your interested....

hard to believe all these white husbands are getting so much sloppy seconds from blacks and they either dont know or dont care. my wife would never.

Never say never....talk to her and see what she is capable of.

I agree with the above. Women are usually MUCH more aggressive and more sexual than we men give them credit for. Your wife may very well surprise you. In fact, she may already be doing black guys, and is just afraid to tell you.

I bet she is ** blacks already

I'm well-off financially, though not so much that I can give my current wife all the material things she deserves. She's really beautiful and (after three cosmetic surgeries she begged for) incredibly well-built and physically perfect. One thing I have been able to give her, however, is the freedom to make and maintain sexual relationships with black men, some she was already dating when I met her and some that she met since the wedding. She is 22 years younger than me, and has always been very active and very aggressive. My children from my first marriage have hated her, because they knew I wanted children with her, and because they said she was a ** (she had worked as a stripper, ** model and **) and they didn't want to be related to "anything that comes out of that nasty ** of hers". So, when she became pregnant last year, they were furious. And they were more furious when the baby arrived. As you've probably guessed, the baby was of mixed race. I had asked her when we got married to keep her affairs in secret and to ONLY allow me to impregnate her and she readily agreed to all of that. Three weeks ago she came to me and said she was pregnant again, with another biracial baby, and that I was just going to have to adjust to the "new" her, eager and hungry for black ** and black babies. She also informed me that I was her cuckold now and that she would never accept a divorce, and if I tried to divorce her, she could and would make things ugly for me. The public knowledge of her infidelity and the proof by way of the child -- soon to be children -- makes it bad, in terms of my business interests, charitable involvements, and church work. So, why am I writing? Only to confirm for you that there are married white women out there who want what you want, and who are only too willing to give it to you. I know that because I am married to one of them. My male friends say she's trash. But I love her, even though my kids won't talk to me because of her.

I feel sorry for you,but I also feel happy for you.I love the fact that you see things the way they are,accept them that way and are willing to happily live with them-being principled is a great trait.I haven't found a willing woman but I have a dream..that one day,I shall achieve my dream!Thanks for your assurance. I just love the fact that you shared and the passion with which you did it,many would enjoy reading about your experience. Best of luck.

this is what you get when you marry a **. its also what you deserve. life doesnt work like My Fair Lady. actions have consequences. how could you possibly not have seen ALL of this coming?

^True.....you should divorce her now before things get worse. and things will get much worse..........trust me....I know.

Yep: you can't convert her to polite society. She's always gonna be exactly what she was when you met her. And you aren't giving her even a slight incentive to be anything else. She started using you the minute she met you and she'll continue using you for the rest of your life. Or the rest of your money. Whichever comes first. Sorry, pal.

I would be very surprised if she hasnt already gave you like 4-5 std's. there are more on the way.

Lol,why is there such an illiterate and unfounded believe that a white woman ** a black guy is bound to acquire STDs? Humans of any race can transmit STDs amongst each other.The most beautiful looking white girl could get, or be a carrier, of an STD just like any handsome black guy could.

sorry, friend. i didnt intend to imply that this was a racial issue: i was focused exclusively on the apparent number of partners his wife has, and what i took to be a lack of selectivity or screening. yes, she could get the infections (and worse) -- and bring them home to her husband -- even if she was ** only white guys. its just that the more guys she ** the greater the odds are that shes gonna get something and shes gonna share it with hubby. i dont like a woman who is so utterly unfaithful, but that is a separate matter of morality and different people can have different ideas about that. my point (poorly expressed) was only that she is exposing herself to all sorts of diseases and she is making that decision for her spouse too. sorry for the unintended insult. my bet would still be that she has already passed an std or three to her husband, whether or not he knows it and whether or not he admits it.

Now I get,and totally agree with you.You did a fine job expressing your views here and you have redeemed you from being devilish to almost sainthood,lol. In any case,there is a risk in having ** with anybody-be it a wife, hubby, gf, pastor, in-laws (or sister, brother, cousin, mom,dad, grandpa/ma, etc., for those who might be into taboo escapades). In other words,really nobody can be trusted 100%. So the more partners one has,the more likely its is that an STD,or STDs,can be acquired and transmitted or go undetected. It might be sensible for the hubby, in this case, to get multiple std tests and use protection thereafter and probably forever.I used to think that the more women I slept with the more likely it is that I can knock one up;but that theory has not worked for me at all,haha. Thanks.

Some of these married white ladies are just nasty. Gotta love 'em!

I totally concur!

Yeah, it's all fun and ** and hot......until it's your wife who's the one running around town with one black man after another and then bringing home black babies for you to raise. That changes things........

I made a decision, at a young age, not to impregnate anybody's wife(I now regret that,lol).My first wife ran around on me(mostly because I was busy with other women),the second one evidently had an abortion, and an STD I did not have(we were living in two distant places),and my third wife was very faithful but could not have kids( I have been totally divorced for years).Some of my girlfriends(including my first one)have cheated here and there.From those experiences and what I have gone through in my life,I just understand that humans are prone to cheating in some degree-some people are more of cheaters than others.I was somehow lucky? that none of my exes brought home a baby, and if they did,there is nothing I could have done other than help raise it,especially if I had other kids with the mother.My first wife,whom I have two daughters with,ended up with another daughter from someone else after our divorce,the second and third wives have no kids as far as I know,while one of my ex-gfs, with whom I have two sons,got married and is now very pregnant.Its weird when I interact with her during kids exchanges and she is all bloated up with someone else's baby,but I don't worry much about it because we had broken up for years before she got married n got knocked up.I honestly have no clue what it feels like for a husband to find out that his wife is knocked up by another man,and more so a man of a different race,or that the new born child will be of a different complexion than all the ones they already have.

It's bad enough to be humiliated by having your wife openly "dating" other men, but it makes it worse when they are black..........because it confirms the idea of black superiority, especially sexually and physically but in other ways, too, because it shows to the whole town that she'd rather be with them than with you. But it's even worse when she gets pregnant and everybody assumes that the babies aren't yours......and she doesn't know whose they are...... because they have seen her out with blacks and then the babies are black. Its happened to me twice and its not fun or **, believe me. And its even worse because it could easily happen again. Easily.

Agreed. I'm a black male, 39 and single, and while I prefer white women, the ones I most enjoy are the married ones out on the prowl for black men. They are so ready and so willing and so able, that I almost can't stand dating the single ones. Almost. :)

I am sure you have much more in store to share with us about dating married women:)

Here's another Times magazine article that fits into the conversation here, for those interested in other angles.

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/07/05/magazine/americas-postracial-fantasy.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=mini-moth®ion=top-stories-below&WT.nav=top-stories-below&_r=0

I read the whole article and I have been thinking about it for about two days now.I have not quite arrived a view, but I think its quite a challenge for bi-racial folks to feel very comfortable in whatever classification they are put in or choose to identify with, at a given day,time,or occasion.

That must be the case, yes. I hadn't thought about that difficulty, though obviously race is the most central to our identity, even when we think it's not. I think you are right, in particular that the identity issue can be "situational" and can vary day by day. It makes me more aware of their challenges, and hopefully I can be more sensitive to their problem in that regard.