A nice weekend

You must really adore your boyfriend and how he makes you feel or you wouldn't jeopardize your marriage this way. Why not get a separation or a divorce and live out your full time happiness with your boyfriend? Take care now.

Yes I really do adore him, but we aren't in love: we're just ** partners. And we're both really really really good at **, which is why we continue the affair. :)

I'm a wife and I have urges to just have a fling now and then. It is good for the soul and the marriage. It perks up my life and gives me new energy to get things done in a more timely manner. A little strange ** now and then is great. Nothing romatic, just plain hard **, no strings attached.

I'm the OP and I agree. And my affairs and flings, and even my one-night-stands, have always invigorated my ** life at home. They make me hornier, they make me more aggressive, they make me MUCH more skilled and inventive, and nobody benefits from my infidelity more than my husband.

Stop rationalizing you **.

It's not rationalizing. It just happens to be the truth. :)

I totally LOVE the attitude: "nothing romantic, just plain hard **, no strings attached". It's been the story of my extramarital relationships on the side, and I hope it remains so.

I understand completely, been married 30 years. I haven't remained faithful. I get turned on other men still look at me with sexual desire. If I am attracted to the guy or sometimes it just about the **, I flirt letting them know I am interested too. Lately just have 2 different guys I enjoy having ** with on a regular basis. I love my husband and would never leave him, would rather have ** with other men.

How would you feel/respond if your husband was doing the same thing> what a way to steal all those lovely emotional experiences from your husband. most people know they are not that special to allow there other to play with that kind of fire.

Ignore ^this^ negativity, please. I'm the OP and I really appreciate your perspective and I completely support it. I feel the same, and even though I cheat frequently, I'm always honest with my boyfriends and tell them that I have no plans to leave home . . . except for a few hours at a time. :)

Yet you lie to the man who supports your fat **, your husband.

Nothing fat about my **.......I get plenty of exercise......the FUN way!!! LOL!

I love your attitude, and I wish I could be as brazen as you are. You GO!!!

Don't lose forever to a one night stand. Stick with the man who is always going to be there don't ** around with guys who will give you herpes then leave.

Love ** like you. I wish more married women were **'s. I love ** another dude's **.

:) Oooooh, baby, baby. I love your attitude. It's exactly the attitude my boyfriend has and it's why he gets those weekends like the one I described above. Most men don't get how hungry women are to cheat!!! I hope you have several nasty married gals in your ** stable, baby!!!!!

I'm meeting one tonight. She's a real dirty ** and ** .she gives me mouthfuls of her liquid and ** and it tastes so good.. look out, tonight she's on her period....
I love you married **..

Why not just divorce your husband and then marry your BF? Not only will you have a nice weekend but every day will by nice for a change!

:) To be honest, I like having both. My BF would marry (or so he's said), but I have a couple kids with my husband (and one with another man) and he's a good father to them. The BF is spectacular lover and incredibly well-hung, but I don't really consider him marriage material. C'est la vie!

Just go for it

I don't like to think of myself as condoning cheating but I have to admit, your post is really **

Thanks! I love my outside relationships. I hope you are having one yourself, or that you soon begin one. Nothing is sweeter.

Are all three of you white or is there any other races involved?

NO **

. . . . . . . racist **.

I like be a racist **, no effect BRO.

Its been a long time... The free world held its breath that the ** Alliance had died off of that evil disease... HIV. That deadly silence that fell over America would soon be shattered...

The guy in this confession should leave the gravy balloon to the beta males. Stay with his bit on the side. Fat chicks like the op are the kiss of death socially and professionally. if people see you with one you are forever branded a loser.

So very true this^. When I was a younger man, I had a LTR with a married woman who, while an incredible ** (really mindblowing and unbelievably nasty), was only so-so-looking and was quite a bit overweight. I had a girlfriend for show at the time who was about a nine, so I only used the married ** for the rough and filthy stuff I needed: that ** would never say "no", not ever. The married ** showed up a few times at the office, and although she never told anyone what our relationship was, apparently it became evident we were banging regularly. I broke it off after a couple years of hard **, because my new regular girlfriend took up the slack, but by then the damage to my career was done. I missed making partner and had to go elsewhere for work, and one of the managing partners confessed to me later that it wasn't my work that caused me to fail at the firm: it was the embarrassment of the trailer-trash ** I was **. So the observation about long-term effects is totally true. ** a tramp like this one can cost you, both socially and professionally. Excellent comment. I wish I had known this fifteen years ago.

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