My Son-In-Law Flashes Me All The Time
I am in my late 60's. My son-in-law is 45 and very nice. He has been married to my daughter for 24 years now and they seem to have a good marriage.
Last Summer, my SIL took a job here in the town where I live, which is about 100 miles away from his home and family. Of course, I let him stay with me during the week and he drives home on the weekends.
About a month after he moved in, he began to wear more revealing clothes at night before bed. At first, he would wear pajama pants, and that was just fine. Then, he took scissors and cut the pajamas into very small shorts. So short, in fact, that sometimes I can see his d*** when he bends in a certain way. The first time it happened I thought for sure it was an accident. But it's happened so many times since then that I know there is no way it's accidental.
Sometimes late at night, while I lie in bed with the light off, he stands in my doorway wearing those pajama shorts and he talks to me. It's just casual conversation, but it's obvious that he's got an erection. He always touches himself through the cotton fabric and he makes it plain and doesn't try to hide the fact that he's playing with himself while he talks to me. When he first did it, it honestly worried me and I just thought that surely because the light was off in the bedroom, he thought I couldn't see him. But it's happened so often now, that it's obvious he wants me to watch.
So I watch him. Over the past few months he's gotten much bolder. Sometimes he leaves the button on his pajamas undone, so that his d*** hangs out in plain sight. I admit, it turns me on, although neither of us make any reference to it. On two occasions, he has actually sat on the couch in the living room while we watched a movie together, and his hard d*** pokes through the hole in his shorts, while he strokes it with his hand. I don't dare talk to him about it, because I don't want it to go any further, and I honestly don't want to hurt his feelings either.
Should I tell my daughter? Should I talk to him? It makes me feel attractive that he would want me that way, but I'm too shy (or afraid) to ever act on it. I never would. Part of me thinks it should stop, but part of me enjoys the attention that he shows me. I would never allow it to escalate.
I've decided that he's simply an exhibitionist and enjoys showing himself to me like that. I don't encourage him, but I don't stop it either.