Why would he marry her?
About 4 years ago i met an amazing guy at work and we started dating. we where together for about 2 years and I was very happy with him. we had amazing s** and the passion was so intense but unfortunantly we broke up due to him having jelousy issues for no apparent reason and i just couldnt handle it anymore. almost immediately after we broke up he started seeing his daughters mom again to whom he had been off and on with since high school. it hurt me to hear that but then i realized he just cant be alone. about 4 months later i started seeing another man to who i got engaged to and i was very much in love with but i still thought about the first guy all the time but i kept my distance and had no contact with him then out of the blue the first guy started calling me again telling me how amazing i am and that he will never find anyone like me and that he cant even look at me because it is to hard for him. unfortunantly my fiance and i split due to his infidelity and i was now single and broken but i still kept thinking about #1. after him trying to win me back and it was working i was then informed by a mutual friend that he was getting married and that she was pregnant as well. i was so discusted with him and the situation that i just cut him off immediately and stopped talking to him 2 years have passed and i still get butterflies when i think of him and being with him i have never had such an unconditional love for anyone and i know he loves me too very much but i cant interfere with there marriage he told me that he married her because he thought i was getting married and couldnt stand the fact that he knew he would never be with me and that he thought he owed it to her for being with him for so long but that he is in love with me not her. he said he came from a broken home and that he didnt want his kids to go through that. i dont know what to do . i cant even get close to any men because they dont compare to what we had its like we were made for each other. I know i dont deserve this so i dont talk to him anymore but how do i get over this and start seeing other guys like i saw him?Jul 11, 2014