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Husband Upset about My Past
I have been married for almost two years to a lovely guy. We have been 100% faithful since getting married. We met at work, and we're both 24. Our marriage has been for the most part strong, although we recently have gone through a little bump.
Last week we were watching TV together, and the subject of threesomes came up. He asked me if I ever had been in one. I admitted that I had, back when I was single. I even admitted that it was with a couple of guys with the company for which we work, although I'm no longer friends with them. What I didn't tell him was that sometimes these sessions would be foursomes, as one of the guy's girlfriends would join in. We were simply young and having fun experimenting with **.
My husband is a very conservative guy, and I could tell that he was upset that I ever could have been so casual with **. I think he is bothered by the fact that he knows the guys in question. My husband was a virgin when we started seeing each other, and I think he might be jealous of the ** that I've had before him, although he won't admit it. In recent days he has made some repeated off-hand comments about it, when it should have been a dead topic, IMO. He just won't let it go.
I shouldn't have said anything, but it is done.
Your boy is immature. You should expect that from him since he did not get any prior to you. If he cant get over it. Ask if it make him feel better to have a 3sum with you. The sad part is he probably isnt even ** you correctly. As you did not even mention ** with him in your comnent. ** because a woman like you deserves sexual forfilment. I bet you think about ** before him all the time. Correct?
He'll get over it. Why? Because you gave all that up . . . FOR HIM!
It isn't that simple.
Oh please, like that makes it all better.