Husband Upset about My Past
I have been married for almost two years to a lovely guy. We have been 100% faithful since getting married. We met at work, and we're both 24. Our marriage has been for the most part strong, although we recently have gone through a little bump.
Last week we were watching TV together, and the subject of threesomes came up. He asked me if I ever had been in one. I admitted that I had, back when I was single. I even admitted that it was with a couple of guys with the company for which we work, although I'm no longer friends with them. What I didn't tell him was that sometimes these sessions would be foursomes, as one of the guy's girlfriends would join in. We were simply young and having fun experimenting with s**.
My husband is a very conservative guy, and I could tell that he was upset that I ever could have been so casual with s**. I think he is bothered by the fact that he knows the guys in question. My husband was a virgin when we started seeing each other, and I think he might be jealous of the s** that I've had before him, although he won't admit it. In recent days he has made some repeated off-hand comments about it, when it should have been a dead topic, IMO. He just won't let it go.
I shouldn't have said anything, but it is done.