She had her chances.
I started dating a man going through a divorce about six months ago. he and his wife of seven years had split up after about a year of fighting and instability. we grew close and he opened up to me about the split, which he hasn't really talked about with his family or friends. but even through it all, he made it clear he wanted a future with me. i was willing to wait for him to be ready. after all, i'm in college so i felt there was plenty of time for us to settle down with each other.
well, two weeks ago, i found out i'm pregnant. just two days later, he told me his ex called. she suddenly wants to "make it work", and call off the divorce. he tried to do that with her long before we got together. they did counseling, trial separation, etc.
a few hours ago, he told me he's thinking about talking to her, just to hear what she has to say. i really don't want him to, but i don't want to be controlling. he said he'll support any decision i make, but he wants to "clear the air" with her soon. i just think he gave her too many chances, you know? why does she care now?