3 children with my Brother-in-law

My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years now. We tried to get pregnant for 6 years but 2 times I got pregnant with his child I lost it within 3 months. This led to spending a ton of money and hurt feelings. Then to an affair with my brother-in-law. Which then led to 3 beautiful children. We ended the affair after the 3rd pregnancy. No one knows but the 2 of us. Now I'm wanting 1 more child before I'm too old. Do I talk him into it one more time!? I so desperately want 1 more.

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  • I am infertile after a childhood infection. My older brother with agreement of his wife and full knowledge of my parents and my wife's parents and family helped us to have a real family. It took a lot of conversations and all pregnancies were achieved "naturally", meaning my brither actually slept with my wife and inseminted her as often as was necessary until she got pregnant.

    We wer lucky and we all are open about it within our family. Officially I am the father but when the time is right we also plan to tell our kids.

    In your case you should talk to him. You won't be able to come out with the truth after all this time. But we see nothing wrong with this and wish you the best of luck.

  • Oh, my dear sweet Jesus! This is one of the sexiest things I've ever heard in my life! Amazing! And yes! You should TOTALLY have him give you another child! Please don't stop at three! And please let us know what you decide and what happens! Please!

  • That is messed up on so many levels. Lying to your husband and the kids

  • In my African tribe's culture,they say if you have consumed a whole elephant,don't give up finishing up with the tail. In other words,the greatest task has been accomplished,one more is not going to hurt or cannot be impossible to achieve. The same way you got the 3 is the same way u can get one more. I have 4 kids between an ex wife and ex gf. I have had bad experiences with those two mothers and if I find another woman who is willing to be kool with me,I will give her two more. Since you have had 3 good experiences with your B-I-L,I don't see why not one more.He is not going to say no. My brother's second wife has had a pregnancy problem.She has had a few miscarriages in the last 3 years although she is young.My brother has beautiful teenage girls from his first marriage. I always wonder if trying another man may make a difference or wonder if she may do that and if successful,tell my bro that its his kid.You had to do what you had to do and now you have to do what you have to do.I bet you though,life will fall apart if anybody gets wind of your arrangement. It will come out some day and cause real havoc.The whole family will be very hurt-your hubby especially and B-I-L's wife.Its not going to be any less devastating or happier if you ended up with 4 kids. Either way,good luck to you.

  • I say don't press your luck. You have been lucky that neither you nor he has been caught. But I know you will do what you want.

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