Feel so much anger towards 19 year old step daughter
My husband and I have been together only two years and he has 3 daughters, 22, 19 and 15. The 19 year old lives with us and the other two live with their mother. I have a 7 year old boy (his father/my late husband passed 6 years ago).
Here is my vent. The daughter that lives with us is in her 2nd year university and is as lazy as they come. She will not help around the house, does not work or help with anything. She lives off us and only surfaces from her room when the aroma of a meal hits her nose. She acts like she is entitled to a free life because she has to study. That's her only responsibility!! She won't get a drivers license and expects her father to be her chauffeur.! She couldn't live with her mother and now I get to deal with this crao her own mother couldn't stand. She argues with my 7 year old as if she is the same age. I work 50 hours a week and come home to no help. She can't even unload a dishwasher. I feel as if I'm going to blow up at her and am already at the point where I can't even make eye contact as in so ugly and resentful towards her. I really hate her as a person. She dropped her major in university because it was too hard. She changed to Fine Arts and can't handle that now! She now wants to change again for the 3rd year! Honestly, does she think she gets free education from her dad forever? My frustrations come to play when my husband gets upset with me whenever I express these feelings. I think I made a mistake taking on this. Sadly, I love my husband but this is really affecting my life too much. Frustrated and lost.