I thought i was fine now

I am still bitter after a breakup a couple months back. I love loved him and He broke up by telling someone else He was worried about how I would handle it then disappeared ceasing all contact. So not even a proper goodbye. I had not let anyone besides a couple friends That i was in a relationship with this man. And they expected me to be right back to my self afterwords. So i didn't let myself any time to grieve and now it all comes out randomly. I am jaded and have given up on all humans in that sense. And it shows apparently since I was talking to a friend about relationships and they said it sounded like i had been hurt too much. I am still so hurt but i cant talk to anyone about it.

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  • You have every right to be hurt. You had feelings for him and he pulled the rug out from underneath you without explanation and cowardly had someone else do it for him. Given what you are saying with the way this guy chose to exit this relationship, I say it's a blessing. It may not seem like that now, but it is. Breaking up is never easy. There is always a surprised party that never thought that the break up was coming. There must have been other red flags in this relationship that this guy is closed off to emotion..I think saying that he was worried about how you would handle it - please. Did you not tell a lot of people about this guy you were dating? Was there a reason for that? You need to just find closure on your end. And if you had the opportunity to talk to this guy face to face, I don't think that you would ever get the answer you are looking for. He's just not a capable of it. But you should talk about this and how you feel. Get it out, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Time helps heal.

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