Don't find my wife attractive
I still love my wife, we've been together 10 years, but I hate how she looks now. This isn't a getting older issue, or stretch marks from kids issue. It's that she's gained 70lbs in the last 3 years and continuously cuts her hair short (which I hate and she knows it).
I look in the mirror, I look very similar to how I did 10 years ago, my hair is thinning a little and I've got stray grey hairs but I'm in better shape physically than I was when we met. I go to the gym 3 times a week, always ask my wife to join me, she comes and might walk for a bit, have a quick swim. Then she's done.
She eats the most enormous portions, at least double what I eat, with almost no exercise and then complains that she's fat (her words, not mine).
I actively avoid having s**, or being affectionate with her and I'm almost embarrassed to be seen in the street with her. Since this weight gain even her friends question why we're together. I've tried my best, I do things with her, I take her to the gym, do these awful diets, tell her she's still beautiful, everything I should be doing but I'm getting to the point where I'm done.
If she's going to continue not making an effort, or starting a diet and exercise plan, then giving up after a week because it's too hard then I'm gonna find someone I am attracted to eventually.