Fell in love with my best friend

I fell in love with my best friend. 

He made me the happiest I’ve ever been, but I could never confess how I felt about him. 

Before I knew it, he ended up moving to orlando for school and our friendship ended up being destroyed from all my terrible friends I had in my life at the time. They told him rumors about me, which ended up scaring him off. I tried messaging him to fix things, but it didn't work out too well. On the other hand, he did understand that the rumors of me weren’t true, which is a good thing i guess, but now we haven’t talked in almost 2 years...

now I'm graduating this year and I'm getting ready to move to orlando this summer, I’ll be attending the same university as him in hopes to run into him and maybe start over with him again (f.y.i. he said he wanted to start over the last time i spoke to him).

I just want that happiness back in my life, he had such a beautiful mind and heart and I miss him so much. 

But here’s the other issue, he used to be so in love with me. Believe it or not he confessed he had a crush on me the first year i met him!! but after 2 years of me not doing anything he fell out of love. At the time he said he had a crush on me i didn’t feel the same, I told him I simply wasn’t interested. So, the month he was moving away for school he told me that he was only “physically attracted” to me. I guess in the end all he wanted was s**…  

I know what you may be thinking.. what a d***... right? But he was so close to me. When he told me he was only "physically attracted” this when when he was all livid after hearing what my friends had told him. the whole situation is just a mess and has been bugging me for the past 2 years. It just hasn’t been something easy to let go considering how close i was to him. 

Do you think theres any chance of me getting this guy back into my life? 

any thoughts/advice about this situation...

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  • Is there a chance to get this guy back into your life? Sure, anything is possible. But who you both were 2 years ago is different then who you are now. He could be dating someone seriously right now. Or you could meet up with him and realize that you're not really into him. Thoughts..advice: You are about to embark on an exciting and new chapter in your life. College is very different than high school. You're going to be meeting tons of new people and experience living on your own in a different city. Plus, the worse thing is to lock yourself up in a relationship and not form real friendships with other people. If anything, wait a couple of months before contacting him. Make some friends, get used to your routine and then contact him and see if he even wants to be friends again. Then see if anything develops from there. Just don't put all your eggs in one basket for a guy who used to be your best friend who said something to you 2 years ago...

  • You're right, thank you

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