Big brown bag

I had a vivid dream about a man years before meeting him. In the dream, he was my husband, we had children, and the love he had for me was so deep and unconditional that it cannot be put in words and I loved him so much. Years later, I met him in real life and thought he looked very familiar but could not remember why. Then it clicked one day. He was literally the man of my dreams. Every detail was the same. The first day I met him, he looked into my eyes and held on to my hand so long, I had to let go. I've had several dreams about him since the first one, varying from friendship, engagement, being married and him being there during the birth of our twins....girl born first, boy born weird. My deceased dad told me in a dream years ago that I will have children, twins, a boy and girl...which is odd because I've never really wanted to have children. This man and I never dated, and we never pursued each other, not even for close friendship, and funny thing is I actually thought he was gay for the longest but he set the record straight (no pun) and said he's not when I asked after I knew him a little better. We'd see each other everyday and he'd always make it his duty to greet me and I'd always save food for him. He recently had to move to another state due to unfortunate circumstances, with his job and I no longer have contact with him. I just cannot get him out of my mind. When I do forget him in waking life, he seeps into my dreams again. The dreams make me feel a deep love for him, but I don't know if it's true feelings, but the love is so strong.

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  • Dont wait. Chase your dream right now.

  • If it is destined though, I shouldn't have to chase it. Unfortunately, he is extremely difficult to get to know, and he doesn't talk to me anymore. He is an expert at ignoring!!!! I love the man in my dreams. It makes me love him in waking life. But it's like an illusion or tease. He has a lot of growing up to do as far as his personality.

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