Catching feelings

I caught feelings for one of my employers. I'm in the greatest relationship with the perfect man but for some reason this other guy keeps popping into my dreams and I get butterflies when he looks at me. Not too much older than I am but married with kids. I catch myself sometimes borderline flirting at work and he's subtle with the return. I'm really happy with whom I'm with and would never let anything progress further than that, but why do I still find the flirting enjoyable..

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  • You should seek help immediately.

  • Flirting is healthy, as long as you keep it at flirting. I love to do it myself. If I didn't love my husband, tho, I would let it go farther!

  • I wish somone would flirt with me

  • I'm a happily married woman with kids too, but if I had a dollar for every guy in the office that I thought about in naughty ways, I'd be a millionaire.

  • You're only human and flirting is healthy/natural.Even if, you're with other people, besides your husband.That said, there's different types of flirting.So know your boundaries and have respect for your husband and yourself :)
    I personally believe it's human instincts, to have crushes on other people, even if you're in relationships.However, when I say crushes,I mean find other people "attractive" and so forth.But, you know your restrictions/limitations, when you're in a loving and happy relationship.Not unless, you have a "open relationship" in that case, it doesn't really matter.But anyways, having dreams about other guys and flirting with this guy is natural.However, like I mentioned above, know your boundaries and intentions.If you love your husband, like you admitted, ensure the flirting with your work colleague, doesn't escalate to sexual flirting :)

  • Correction -"Even if, it's with other people, besides your husband" :)

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