I caught feelings for one of my employers. I'm in the greatest relationship with the perfect man but for some reason this other guy keeps popping into my dreams and I get butterflies when he looks at me. Not too much older than I am but married with kids. I catch myself sometimes borderline flirting at work and he's subtle with the return. I'm really happy with whom I'm with and would never let anything progress further than that, but why do I still find the flirting enjoyable..