Inappropriate Xmas Gift
For the last year, my husband and I have had a mutual friend living with us. She was going through a tough time, so we let her stay with us. We've known her for years, and there have been no issues since we invited her to stay. She pays her rent, helps around the house, and even drives our son to and from school everyday. She has been a model roommate.
As a family, we are at the point where we don't really do major gifts during the holidays anymore--maybe something small, but that is about it. On Christmas we exchanged a few things, a token gift or two for each of us. I was severely disturbed by what our friend gave my husband.
Our friend gave my husband something called a Tenga Flip. We both looked at her and said, "What is this?" She said it was a masturbatory aid, and that she got it for him as a joke. I did not think that it was funny at all.
I asked her, "Why do you think he needs one of these?" She told me to "lighten up" and that it was a gag gift. I said, "It is a little disturbing that you gave this to MY husband." She again said it was a joke and that she didn't mean any harm by it.
I started to get upset, but my husband cooled me out, by saying it was okay, etc. I think he thought the gift was no big deal, but then again, he is a guy who thinks between his legs. I'm still so upset about the whole thing that I want to kick her rear to the curb. I'm upset.