Nothing yet, but . . . . .
My daughter married a wonderful man 2 years ago. He's 14 years older than she is, but they have a wonderful relationship. My problem is that in the last 3 months, I've started developing some serious feelings for him. Nothing has happened yet, and probably nothing ever will, but it would be wonderful if it did. Those feelings are there, they are real, and they are growing. I want to make them stop, but so far, I have not been able to control that. I worry for what could happen if they get completely out of control, although it would be wonderful if we BOTH lost control ON each other. He is actually closer to my age than he is to hers, he and I have so much in common (art, theater, sports, etc.), and when we are out somewhere all together, everyone assumes that I am his wife, and that his wife is our daughter (it happens every time). I fantasize about actually being his wife, in every possible way, if you get my meaning. I know it has to stop, but I can't stop it.Jul 24, 2017