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Torn between husband and grown son
My 69 year old husband of 10 years has his good points, but he uses his ptsd and ADD cards to justify everything... he's always "deeply hurt" and constantly feels sorry for himself. I have a grown son from a prior horrible marriage. My current husband has a grown daughter and granddaughter. My son and I are working to find healing of our relationship and he's stayed a couple months with us in early 2017. Didn't go well. But things are changing for the better between us lately. Trouble is, my husband pretty much detests my son for being aloof and not too respectful in the past and blew up at my son recently until my son packed up his things and left. My husband insists he is always right and that my son owes him an apology (reminds me of that guy in the Popeyes movie who kept saying " you owe me an APOLOGY!" 🤦♀️ My son's in a motel right now with nowhere to go... he's been having a terrible time over the past two years with his business failing. I feel torn between my Baby Huey/Eyore husband and my son who I'm finally feeling some healing with. My son is actually acting like the mature man here, and that's not just mama bear taking sides. Thanks for letting me vent. I just want to go back to being single and staying single forever.
Leave your husband and go to your son's hotel. Start that relationship with your son. A healthy mother son relationship is better than a marriage. Even sexually sometimes. I chose my son over his dad. If you read this comment we will talk
Family comes first. Do t let your husband manipulate you with his illnesses to get his way. Stand up and tell him what's what. If he doesn't like it then he can leave
Furthermore, start ** your son. You'll never regret it.