got in and now want out!
okay me and my boyfriend been going out for 8 months now, soon to be nine and we both say were staying stong, but at times i wonder... if it's really true. we've gone far, and when i say this, i mean all the way. after that he stilled stayed and all but at times i just think to myself, is he staying cause he knows he can get more is he staying cause he loves me? we got this far, and it's like we have to do something everyday now. i don't want that to heppen and at times i tell him not today, and he's okay. recently i gave him a challange of not doing anything at all, not being touchy touchy for a few months and he's like ok? but it's going to be hard. he says because he's a s** addict it's going to be hard for him and all. if it's true love as we think it is... it shouldn't be a problem right? how do i get this to stop. i don't want to be doing things all the time, in fact i want it to stop. i want to be in a relationship where all the physical stuff isn't needed. what can i do?